What now?I told her how I felt..More info.. Serious answers only pls..Girls advice...?

Question

I asked my close female friend if she FELT anything towards me at all, ever. More than just a friend. (She knows how I feel about her) She replied:

"I never feel nothing for anybody and every individual means something to me in their own unique way.Thats all I'm going to say". MEANING???

If we were just friends WHY wouldn't she just say so???I asked her to be blunt and that I wouldn't hate her for her reply. Help!!!Advice!!!

She then said there are too many ppl in the world who are 2 faced and selfish,who don't value individuals like she does.Is hurt that OTHER ppl don't value ppl the way she does.MEANING???

What she thinking\feeling???Will she speak to me again? What do I do now???

Surely as FRIENDS, she would let me know if there was no chance at all....NO???Is she scared???

MORE INFO:

We go to dinner, lunch together and for drinks in the evening. We’re ATTRACTED to each other, flirt with each other, we’re in touch practically everyday, can only open up too me, feels very comfortable with me, enjoys spending time with me,we trust each other etc.

Answer 1

It sounds like she has been really hurt by someone before, has she just split up frm someone recently or been treated really badly by an ex? She sounds very cynical and if you give her time she will maybe come round. You need to find out about her past if you don't already know. It may be that she isn't interested or just that she's trying to take it very slowly and is saying these things as she's been hurt before and is still feeling raw over it
If that's the case then the old saying "time is a great healer" is very very true.
Good luck!

Answer 2

Lose the game playing chick and find someone who wants a real relationship or at least can be honest about her feelings either way. Not answering is a power trip that leaves you hanging. Quit making excuses for her-she isn't acting like a friend or a girlfriend.

But YOU can be a friend by telling her you are interested in either a relationship or a friendship, but you don't want the games either way....and you'll be happy to hang out when she gets her head together.

Then, go out and meet some new people.

Answer 3

I think you should ask her again and tell her that this time you would like a straight answer. Honesty has a huge part to play in friendship and she should be able to be completely honest. Tell her you need to know whether you have a chance or not so that you can move on with your life. I think she is deliberately stinging you along because it's a boost to her ego to have someone there that she knows is into her and if she tells you that there is no chance she knows you will move on. She doesn't sound like a very genuine friend in my opinion.

Answer 4

I'd go with that guy, try it the good old fashioned way and ask her out, failing that give her an ultimatum, me or the games, also agree with someone else's but I'm too much of a lady to say it.

Answer 5

you sound so genuine

i reckon maybe she is just not interested in a relationship right now. its hard to say something like that to someone because you knwo they are going to take it to heart and assume it is their fault.

perhaps she *didnt* realise what you are asking.

could you ask her if she wants a relationship with you? ask nicely, like 'would you like to move this up a level?'

you never know!

i wish you luck

xoxo

Answer 6

why cannot u just ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend? give her flowers, call for dinner and tell her everything! you are a MAN! be brave!

Answer 7

tell her to give you a straight answer like do you like me "yes or no" none of the metaphore sh!t and tell her that your not playing

Answer 8

long story, i like short stories

Answer 9

i think she is happy with the way things are between you and doesnt want more