I have heard that gay men get "hit on" by straight women all the time. The theory is that all women think they are the one woman that can "boink a gay man straight."
Have you found this to be the case? Have you ever been propositioned by a woman? How did you react?
I ask this question in the interests of science. Don't read anything into this.
Thanks.
2006-12-07 08:58:12 · 9 answers · asked by chieromancer 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
the higher up the tree the fruit is the better its gonna taste right? eh..we are a challenge..straight guys arnt.
2006-12-07 09:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a female perspective-don't assume that when a straight women hits on a gay guy that she is trying to boink him at all, let alone boink him into being straight. There are some women who love hanging with gay guys cause it is safe and they like to play and tease and flirt knowing it isn't about getting sexual. Also, sometimes they are testing just how committed to being gay they are, not because they want anything from the guy. I have to say that the BEST party I ever went to in my life was an all gay men (about 30 of them) and me-we all had such fun being silly!
2006-12-08 04:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, im not a gay man. Im a lesbian woman. BUT its the same for me. Straight men hit on me AND my girlfriend all the time thinking they are "Man" enough to turn us "back in". That's about the dumbest theory ever. So is the theory that a woman cna "turn" a gay man straight. It has nuthing to do with turning anybody anything. It's about that persons preferences and needs. I am not bisexual. Therefore, a man could be hung like a horse & look like Brad Pitt & i would still say NO.
2006-12-07 17:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've been hit on because women didn't know I was gay, didn't know I had a partner, and they assumed I was available. It didn't hurt that I'm not terribly ugly, I'm in a good financial situation, I have no kids, and I'm basically a nice guy.
I take it as a compliment. Ditto when another guy hits on me. I'm not available, but it's still nice to be told from time to time that someone thinks you're attractive.
2006-12-07 17:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to me all the time.
For one reason gay men are not intimidated by women...because we are not interested in having sex with them the nature of our relationship with them is not tense. I am a good looking man and women find me attractive and nice to be around, a couple of my friends wanted me in the beginning but after commenting on how nice a guys a*s was a couple of times they get it and accept me....they still want to fcuk me though and I find it flattering! I have several straight friends who have told me in confidence that they are flattered when a gay man makes a pass at them too...
2006-12-07 17:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by chuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couldn't reach you via e-mail access but felt compelled to ask you what you mean when you said the weather in L.A. stinks? I thought the weather was it's most redeeming aspect and the reason people live there and put up with all the other crap of cost, traffic, etc. So, what is it about the weather you don't like?
Just curious...
2006-12-08 04:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by ontheroadagainwithoutyou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like women. I like guys. Never made alot of difference to me.
2006-12-07 16:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jack 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
This is true. I have and ignore it as best as I can.
2006-12-07 22:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
o yes i bet you have a sweet *** too
2006-12-07 16:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by tyler_blanchard 1 · 2⤊ 4⤋