Need to find out if she is pregnant...?

Question

had sex with this girl almost 3 weeks ago (19 nov). she called me that saturday (25 nov) to tell me that she thinks she missed her period. i wore a condom, i did not c*m, and it did not break. last thursday we went to take and EPT and it said "not pregnant". she claims to not have had sex with anyone else (but I am not so sure). i instinctively feel as though i couldnt have gotten her preg. whats interesting is that she claims to have serious financial problems and is begging for help with mortgage. even said "give me money so I can go to doctor and figure it out myself" (but who knows how she would really use the money) deep down i dont trust her...so , we are going to meet tonite..if she takes another EPT tonite do you think it would be accurate at this point? (she tried taking one on Tues nite but EPT did not work) she said her period is never normal and shes not even sure what here cycle is but thinks she has already missed it for sure...if we take test tonite will it work? thnx

Answer 1

It sounds like she's trying to play you for money. If you can't ignore her, take her to a low cost pregnancy clinic and order the test from and pay to the cashier yourself. If the pregnancy test is positive, insist on seeing it and/or hearing the news from the nurse yourself. Then sit back and relax for 8 months or whatever. Once the baby is born, do a paternity test. I doubt she is pregnant at all and if she is I very highly doubt that it is yours given your information.

Do not pay for a home test or involve yourself in that, there's already been one and any future ones would need to be followed up by a professional test anyways no matter what. Absolutely do not give her any money to do things herself or trust her.

I think your instincts are dead on.

Answer 2

It sounds like she is just trying to get money from you. If you wore a condom and did not ejaculate then your chances of getting her pregnant are very slim. First of all she could be sleeping with someone else. Second of all just because her period is late does not mean she's pregnant necessarily. If she tests now the results should be accurate. Have her take an EPT or First Response pregnancy test in front of you. Pregnancy tests can detect accurately about two weeks after conception. Be careful with this girl and good luck.

Answer 3

This is a hard one. If I were you I would wait until she can give you a positive pregnancy test (make sure your there while she takes it so she does not get someone else to take it for you) Then I would wait until the baby is born and get a paterinty test done. I dont see how it can be yours if you used a condom, did not finish and did not have the condom break then I would not worry at all. Just dont let her use you.

Answer 4

Well, whether or not or no longer you desire to inform both of your father and mother, you must. There is not any manner she will be able to cross and get an abortion, if she desired to, with out an grownup gift seeing that she's underage. There is not any manner that her father and mother don't seem to be simply going to become aware of. You must cross to the general practitioner and if she does it is going to cross below her father and mother' coverage, with a purpose to elevate flags. Think of all of the matters that would cross unsuitable. I recognize you men desire to preserve it surely, however you're bigger off adopting it out or the opposite choice. The manner the arena goes correct now you can be fortunate in case you don't seem to be homeless quickly your self. I'm certain you're mindful of the nice despair, good what's going on now's a lot worse and believe me, she does not desire to be pregnant and out at the streets. Any pressure she has now even as she's pregnant will cross to the child and intent the child to come to be having top blood stress for the duration of it is lifestyles. Anything that occurs even as the child is within the womb will end result it as soon as it comes out. The womb is the primary atmosphere wherein a child begins to study how the arena works. If the child is born with a incapacity are you able to maintain it? Many adults will abandon a little one that as a incapacity. I will let you know now that you're bigger off going to tuition and getting a nice schooling. You must both stop the child or the opposite choice. If you speak in your father and mother and inform them that that's your plan you're much more likely to have an less difficult time handling them. Good success and sorry for the lecture, however I figured it is whatever I might inform adults which are simply coming out infants as good. EDIT: A lady could have a child at that age. The youngest mom on list was once 7 or nine I think. Her uncle raped her and he or she received pregnant. Kids mature quicker at the moment. There are women having intervals in kindergarten and constructing breasts.

Answer 5

it may still be to early.... it is better to do the pregnancy testing in the morning since the urine is more concentrated. It is hard to say if she is pregnant if she does not remember her first day of her last period though... Girls are usually fertile around day 14 of her cycle start counting Day One first day of bleeding....

Well I hope that she is not pregnant! if she is not you need to drop her like a bad habit do not give her the chance to put you through this again!

Is she on any Birth control? Sounds like she should be if she has no money to support a kid!

I hope the test will be negative

Answer 6

My gut reaction is that she's trying to play you. Most home tests should be accurate at this point, but to be double dog sure I would go with her to the doctor or clinic to get a blood test. Offer to pay, but go with her so you know that that's what the money's going for. If it's negative, I wouldn't give her anything after that. If it's positive, then the two of you are going to have to have a looooong talk.

Answer 7

Go to a doctor and do NOT give this girl any money at all... if she does need any money if she is pregnant then go with her and pay for services yourself. She might be pregnant who knows, but the only sure way is to go see a Dr. Dont trust the EPT and dont trust her...

Answer 8

Try to find a pregnancy resource center (not planned parenthood) and they will give you a free pregnancy test. Also, they usually have free ultra sounds when further along. They have parenting classes and a lot more. Just to let you know, if there was any contact of your genitalia with hers before a condom at all, there could have been. You don't have to c*m to secrete there is sperm

Answer 9

always trust your instincts!

if she is pregnant dont hand over money till you know that baby is yours. as you described you used the condom corectly i doubt your the father. and pay for the dna test to be done asap it will put your mind at rest ovver the issue of you being the father.

take the test if its positive see doctor if negative wait 1 week and test again regardless of that result see a doctor!

Answer 10

Yeah, if she takes another one and it's negative, then she is not pregnant. It's hard for me to believe that she has no way of keeping track of her periods because even people who are irregular usually have a general idea. If you used a condom, then you are probably pretty safe and I suggest you tell this girl to leave you alone if it turns up negative tonight.