I have been married 15 years and am going through a civil dissolution. I'm missing the advantages of being single (besides the obvious). Any thoughts?
2006-12-07 08:46:48 · 14 answers · asked by Richard h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Time will heal your pain...being married for 15 years is a long time. Go out to different places and meet new people. Go out with some of the guys from work. People might even try to set u up with friends of theirs or their wives. Have fun whatever u do and dont rush into anything...Good Luck
2006-12-07 08:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love being married. I adore the company, the security, the idea of having my husband with me every day and night. However, if you are not with or have not found the right person then obviously you should be single until your Mr. or Mrs. Right comes into your life.
Being single has its advantages as in: you don't have to answer to anyone, you don't have to share $, you have no in-laws, you can sleep with whoever you want and not be called a wife cheater etc etc.
I think being married has way more advantages as the companionship and knowing I am with my Mr. Right is enough for me! Good luck!
2006-12-07 08:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it fairly is barely a stable decision to get married even though if it fairly is to the final individual for the final motives. in case you recognize him properly sufficient and you're compatiable in each and all of the important issues, proportion an identical values/morals, your existence is going interior an identical course, you fairly love one yet another and might spend eterntiy with in undemanding terms them and under no circumstances cheat, then it has a extra suitable hazard of understanding. it fairly is extra suitable to stay single for an prolonged time than married to the incorrect individual for any volume of time. At 21, this is the incorrect age to evaluate marriage, end your education, shuttle for a three hundred and sixty 5 days, see the international, journey the international and do what you prefer to do till now settling down and getting married.
2016-12-11 04:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me its best to remain single in your youth and enjoy it moderately as to really think about action and consequence, then at about 30+ Plan on getting married and actually stay married. Marriage is something to really consider before barging into it because it symbolizes love and the union of two forever. Not many people believe this so they remain single. If you don't like compromise you should not give hope to the person you are with. You waste her/his time and yours.
2006-12-07 10:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by Fioriae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never been married, and no kids, I'm 30 and I love the freedom of traveling to other countries and places at the drop of the hat without having to answer to someone, or have to worry about kids. I see a family in my future, but I"m happy with being single. And on the other end of the spectrum I have friends who are married with kids and love. it... to each its own I guess
2006-12-07 08:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by diva 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do some special things to spice up your love life at home. Start dating again. Most people get married & quit dating. Go to the movies, go out to dinner, go get a drink together....do fun things that won't make you think about wishing you were single again....
2006-12-07 08:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't you want to come home every night and have the closeness of a friend/lover/soulmate? I'm sure marriage takes work and energy but honestly, when 2 people love each other, I think it is the most beautiful thing ever!
2006-12-07 08:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I've been married for 6 & can't think of any either.
I guess when we get married, our singles memory is the first thing to go!
2006-12-07 08:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by Big Super 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was happy single and I'm happy married. Both have their advantages.
2006-12-07 09:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating sucks too. You can't win. We are never happy with what we have. single people want to be married and married people want to be single.
2006-12-07 08:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by Atousa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋