my hubby had a vasectomy today,bless him - he's feeling sore what can i do to cheer him up?
2006-12-07 08:32:48 · 14 answers · asked by thundercatbabe 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
in response to our age - we are both 27 and have 2 children a boy and a girl, and we didnt want anymore.
2006-12-07 09:48:14 · update #1
Tell him how much your love him and that this is probably the most unselfish thing he could do for the two of you
One word of caution - and I am not sure the Doctor mentioned this but to be totally sure - have his give a sample of his semen in about two weeks and have it looked at for any of his critters that might still be around
The LAST thing you want to do is get preg thinking he is safe. After a negative test - then all the two of you have to do is HAVE FUN
I congratulate him on being a responsible male
Gerbear
2006-12-07 08:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best thing to do is to give him support and make him feel as comfortable as possible. One of the most important things here is that he keep his "nuts on ice" continuously. The swelling and soreness will go away faster if he keeps the "nuts on ice". Provide him the ice when he needs it so that he doesn't have to get up so much. Thats a great help right there. Good luck.
Sorry for the "nuts on ice" thing. Thats what I say everytime I refer to my own experience with the Vasectomy issue.
2006-12-07 16:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by Goober W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put an ice pack on it. Might not cheer him up but it will help the soreness
2006-12-07 19:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by ><>JHF<>< 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The previous answers were all OK. Just make sure that you wait till the lines have been cleared of swimmers before you ride bareback. I have two female cousins who did not, ooops, one more rugrat for each.
2006-12-07 16:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He will feel much better in about 3 days. When he feels perky again, give him the greatest oral sex session he's ever experienced. One thing you could do to even make that better.......Swallow. Even if you've never done that before, do it that time and act like you loved it.
2006-12-07 16:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
of course hes sore.just be there for him and assure him that you still love him.he is probably thinking that he wont be able to perform again and thats not true.he will be able to do everything he use to do(as soon as he heals)all he wont be able to do is make babies.tell him to cheer up and as soon as he heals he will be just fine.good luck to you and your husband.god bless you and yours and you all have a merry christmas and happy new year.
2006-12-07 16:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I just wonder how old are you.
I got mine when I was 32, and divorced just a few years later.
I regretted that move. I'm too old now but I just wish ?
2006-12-07 17:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can think of one thing im sure he would love but under the circumstances i wouldnt. just knowing that you care will help and a promise for when he feels better wouldnt go amiss
2006-12-07 16:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by Clare S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just kiss it better. I've been firing blanks for 22 years
2006-12-07 16:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a rubber ring and tell him it could have been worse
2006-12-07 16:38:20 · answer #10 · answered by amyirmanmamansoaam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋