I have been marreid for 1 year. My wife complaning every day all day
2006-12-07 08:32:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She is probably just bipolar.
2006-12-07 08:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 2⤊ 4⤋
You need to talk to her and maybe see a therapist.
Your wife needs to know that her complaining is breaking apart the marriage.
You need to look at what you're doing to decide if any of her complaints are valid.
She needs to understand that NO, a wife can't change a man's basic personality, and woman who get married expecting their men to change afterwards get what they deserve.
Talk it out with her. Offer to meet her half way, but point out that for a marriage to work, both people have to work at it, and that includes accepting your spouse the way he or she is.
And again -- see a therapist (together).
2006-12-07 16:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by jplrvflyer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try self-improvement. Make a sincere effort to do the things she wants you to do, BEFORE she gets a chance to tell you. Make yourself into a proactive, mature, conscientous, considerate person. Even if all that doesn't satisfy her, it doesn't matter because you still win by having become a better man.
2006-12-07 16:36:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More details needed. If she is just a nag and you really don't feel you've done anything wrong talk to her about it. If you are a lazy, jobless sloth that doesn't pick up after himself then maybe you deserve it. You see, without details, it's impossible to advise.
2006-12-07 16:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked your wife why she complains all the time? Obviously there is a problem and you need to work with her to get to the root of it.
2006-12-07 16:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by Cali Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have no idea if you are or not. All we know is, that your wife complains everyday and all day.
From your question and information, I can see why her patients may be a little short.
2006-12-07 16:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she watched her mother treat her father that way. Try to let it roll off but try to do what she says (if you can). Women are funny, once they get what they nagged about, they either don't want it anymore or don't nag anymore. Beat her at her own game.
2006-12-07 16:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seriously I will never figure out how a piece of paper and a ring and a kickass party makes people hate eachother and change.....go to consoling
2006-12-07 16:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by chemicalbrothers13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really haven't given enough information and we don't have your wife's side of the argument. Its really not enough to say whether or not you are "that bad".
2006-12-07 16:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by nease174 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she complaining on you not helping her do anything around the house or are you not doing anything at all. Be more specific.
2006-12-07 16:35:16 · answer #10 · answered by colee97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to shut up and be happy!!!! If she's like this already, then think how she'll be in 10 years....
2006-12-07 17:02:09 · answer #11 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋