ok ...so this girl was my best best friend.and we were very close and told eachother everything then all of the sudden..when 9th grade started she started to fight with me over stupid things. and she said that i was a spoiled brat and that she didnt like me anymore and she said that i have changed.(the only change was that i was a little more popular and i go some new friends)i was so confuse cuz i didnt do anything to her. so she stopped hanging with our group of friends and started hanging another one of my friend and all of the sudden that friend stopped talking to me too..so i didnt know wut to do.so i apologized and wrote my friend a letter but the next day someone said to me that she was spredding gossip about me . wut do i do ....????? it just doesnt feel right .she was a close friend of mine and now we dont talk at all HELP!!!!!!!!
2006-12-07 07:56:33 · 8 answers · asked by sk8r_princess 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ask what is wrong then if she still does'nt talk to you then dont talk to her she isnt worth your time
2006-12-07 07:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by bchbumsparadise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First my dear , this is your ex best friends problem not yours ? You've have done all you can be expected to do and it seems your friend was simply jealous of your other social relationships and that your attentions were not solely on her anymore as your social circle began to grow. That you should not be expected to apoligise for. As far as rumors spread about you .Who cares ! Don't let that get to you hun .You can't please everyone all the time and why waste your energy doing that when you can be using the same energy's doing things that make you happy .Let her say what she wants and do what she's going to do .You can't control that as much as you may like to .But what you do have control of is how you deal with it .In fact you can choose not to deal with it at all. frtankly i'm sure there are many things you'd rather do that would make a difference in your life. People that do know you know those rumors are'nt real and best of all so do you and thats all you really need. Take much care
2006-12-07 16:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by sparklin_aries_4167 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me when I say this. It's not the end of the world. Oh well if she doesn't want to be your friend her lost. Don't worry about the rumors if they aren't true. Your real friends know you and won't believe the gossip. Me and my bestfriend went through some things and I also wrote her a letter telling her what's up and we squashed our issues because she didn't know that I was affected by her actions. It's just high school it will be over soon as you know it, don't sweat the small things k..
2006-12-07 16:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
You deserve a better friend...don't worry about her problem with you or why shes not talking to you... move on and find Better friends...She is probably joelous.. Let her dig her own ditch and realize that she lost a great friend...Do not be rude to her/ignore her...just smile at her when you walk by... She will realize it!!!
She is not a real friend if she keeps ignoreing you...do not stoop down to her level be the better person and leave the past behind you!..
:) Hope this Helps!
2006-12-07 16:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by crzycoolswmr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was smart of you to write her a letter but u need to talk to her face to face. Dont accuse her of nething when u talk to her and dont have neone around u when u do either. just tell her that ur srry that she feels like u have changed and that u have neglected her and u still want to be friends with her beacuse u think ur friendship is worth more than popularity. if she accepts ur apogly then just try and make her fit in with ur new friends so u can keep ur new found popularity and ur best friend at the same time. but if she doesnt except ur apolgy, well than she wasnt as good of a friend to u as u were to her. good luck!
2006-12-07 16:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by anysportzchik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really understand what you are going through actually im dealing with the same thing right that girl who you thought was your friend is very jealous of you . you don't need to have people in your like that. all this will come back on her so don't stress yourself out over this. ignore her and do not stoop to her level! let that girl talk all she wants about you and don't let it bring you down. she just wishes she were you! So stay up!
2006-12-07 16:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by Lavender da Great!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably jealous of the fact that you became popular. I would leave her alone. From what you've said, you've been the bigger person in the situation. Good luck!
2006-12-07 15:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why are you not talking to me
2006-12-07 16:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by Baby V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋