I love my boyfriend of a year so much it hrt , but i found my self shouting at him all time but after i feel so bad when i look to him after . how can i stop....
2006-12-07 07:43:19 · 13 answers · asked by nady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you need to sit down and talk to someone about whatever is bothering you. there might be something wrong with you or there is something about him that is bothering you. whatever it is you need to figure it out because you probably don"t want to lose the person you are with
2006-12-07 07:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by bj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you shouting at him? Has he done some thing to upset you are is it that your feelings towards him over the year is slowly declining?
How can you stop? Just stop!! Once you find that you are about to shout at him, take a deep breath, if you are still in that mood start counting from 1, 2, 3..... until you feel better.
Hope This Helps!!!!!!!
2006-12-07 07:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound as though you really love your botfriend but need help controling your anger.
This can be due to all sorts of reasons from stress, alcohol depression and childhood experiences.
you can learn to control it, explain to your boyfriend that you love him and you want to do somthing about this, then go to your doctor and tell him how you are feeling. he can give you a check up and either offer advice, counselling, anger management medication etc, in other words the right treatment for what you seem to be experiencing.
you have made the first step, now go and make the second... good luck!
2006-12-07 07:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should adjust yourself,then he will voluntarily change or there will be a natural separation that will not have any animosity associated with it.you can not force people to change,and do not expect perfection,we all have a flaw here and there,and we can not sit in judgment of others.the little things that annoy you,are they really that bad.relationships require a lot of attention,selflessness and compromising,remember growing up with a family,didn't some of your blood relatives piss you off,well,expect that from a non relative and look at it the same way.
2006-12-07 07:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by lolo rachi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how sorry you are, and how much you love him etc
Mark down on a calender when these outbursts happen, it might be around your period, honestly pmt does exsist some months more than others......Its is worth looking into just in case.....
Im sure your two will be fine good luck xxx
2006-12-07 07:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun why are you shouting at him? if its a understandable reason then yeah go ahead shout all you want, but if its for no reason then maybe your getting tired of him and anything he does is bugging you so you find your self shouting because your bored and tired of hm.
2006-12-07 07:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by Daisy123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him this so he know's you don't mean to do it. Are you insecure, scared he's going to dump you? Sounds that way. You need to have a chat with someone to find out whats making you snappy and sort it out.
2006-12-07 07:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember all realationships need work. not everything in life is easy. its alright to get mad at your loved ones because your around them so much and you will get on each others nervous. but if you get mad at him just remember you love him and you can allways sort out your problems and talk things through if he loves you he will understand!!! good luck hun x
2006-12-07 07:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by francho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just remember why you love him so much. like just remember you feel so bad when you scream at him so to make that not happen you just need to think about it before it happen. GOOD LUCK TO YOU!!!!!
2006-12-07 07:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by ~~~~brit~~~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you always hurt the ones you love........think of life without him...if you cant bear the thought....then dont shout at him X
2006-12-07 08:38:49 · answer #10 · answered by Dorisdimples 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋