know this is wrong but I still love her. They've set me up with good looking friends of hers but I can't get into anyone else. Last night they had me for dinner with a friend of hers and before we left we were doing dishes and I told her how I felt. She told me she didn't think we should speak to each other anymore and she was sorry. I don't know what to do. I have to see him at work on Monday, but what's worse is how am I going to get over this woman?
2006-12-07 07:05:10 · 11 answers · asked by q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to let it go or you will lose that friendship that you have with your friend.
Stay away from them for as long as it takes, but don't get in between them.
I know this is hard but it has to be done.
Good luck to you
2006-12-07 07:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As you probably already know, you've violated you're friend's trust. And, when you told her how you felt, well you just crossed the line. You're only option... let it go. We all make mistakes and that was yours. The next time you meet someone that "floats your boat" make sure that she is available. Love will find it's way to you again.
2006-12-07 15:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mitmita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to forget about her. She's married to another man, and she is obviously not interested. You should not have told her how you felt. It doesn't make a difference how much you love her, she made a vow and she and her husband have a right to be happy without you stepping in and creating a conflict.
2006-12-07 15:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by freakindasheets 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
AAAAAnd good luck with all of that. By the way, your not the greatest friend in the world, and if I was that guy, trying to help you and being your friend, then you tried to stab me in the back like that I would definately be opening up a can of WHOOPASS on you.
2006-12-07 15:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is best to attain things on your own. You may not be in love, but infatuated with her and the things you see shes's done for you. It may be hard and difficult at first to accept. Love is an attraction to things we cannot have sometimes. You must be strong enough to love her to let her be happiest with where she is at. You may come across selfish if you try to get her to see what it is you want with her when she already has made a commitment with someone already. True love is letting things go when they aren't yours to have. If it is meant to be it will come back to you. Moving on and doing you can help you find greater attainment within yourself than can be found in someone esle.
2006-12-07 15:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
After all they have done for you what you did was very wrong. I would apologize to her, and stay away from them, you are NOT a true friend.
2006-12-07 15:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by marisanj 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
let me get this straight. your friend's wife and your friend are in a happy relationship, they go out of their way to introduce your lonely butt to someone. you tell the wife that you have feelings for her and she tells you that she cant be seen around you? HELLO!!! she doesnt want you, go seek help! your fighting a losing (if it exists) battle
2006-12-07 15:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT HER FIND SOME NEW MEET AND WORK ON HER FOR A WHILE AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS
2006-12-07 15:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by KISS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have never done that.
"You shall not covet your neighbor’s house; you shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or male or female slave, or ox, or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor."
2006-12-07 15:08:47 · answer #9 · answered by lulu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she dont want you. u need to keave them along and you have to tell your friend
2006-12-07 15:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by 509 girlz in this place 2 b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋