Up until last week my son's father and I were working on a relationship even though he admitted to sleeping with another woman. I forgave him. Him got locked up last week for something that was not correct in the system and that woman bailed him out. I can't do it because I live in another state and we had plans to visit for the holidays. When he kept telling her about me and his son, she got tired of hearing it cuz she wants him for herself. Hhe told him that we should get back together since thats all he talks about and he said he would. After that, she tells him she's pregnant and since he lost his place she moves in with him at the motel and is paying the bills. He works but his money is tied up with restituion and bills. Mind you my son is 9 and has not seen any support cuz he's been locked up most of his son's life off and on. This woman has bad feelings for me and told him she don't like me and she's tired of hearing about our son.I'm selfish cuz I don't want him around her?
2006-12-07 07:04:24 · 10 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
NOPE you are right on the money!
#1 call child support enforcement
#2 move on your worth MORE than this
#3 he is ALLOWING this, if you were his first choice SHE would not be there and he wouldn't allow her to say these things let alone turn and tell you what she says, he is stirring the pot. Let him be freeeeeeeee! I know it's rough but he sounds like a player!
Good luck and focus on your son! Keep your son from her, she will talk this way to him as well. Thats not fair to a kid!
2006-12-07 07:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're selfish because you keep insisting that this dead-beat dad should be in your Son's life. You're selfish because you're so starved to have someone love you that you're not even paying attention to how damaging this situation is for your kid. You're selfish because this man is a waste of time, a waste on society's money and taxes and you keep giving him chances.
Do the right thing for your son. Leave this man to his ignorant ways and go raise your boy.
2006-12-07 15:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to think about getting that negative influence away from your son. He doesn't need to be exposed to different woman that your father bring home. he doesn't sound like a very committed man and he probably won't stay committed to his new fling either. It sounds like you need to move on without him in your life.
2006-12-07 15:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him earn the relationship with his son and that you move on and find a man with alot less baggage.
2006-12-07 15:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by J.C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO U KEEP YOUR SON AWAY FROM HER SHE NEW ABOUT U AND YOUR BOY SHE IS A SLIT U ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING HE NEEDS TO BE A MAN U ARE ALREADY DOING YOUR PART BE STRONG DON'T LET ANYONE HURT U OR YOUR BOY AND IT SOUNDS LIKE THE SLIT IS CRAZY
2006-12-07 15:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by KISS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sons father is currently locked up i found out by the woman he was cheating with so i can relate. keep her away it sounds like she is jealous. a jealous harted person is a treacherous one. she might hurt your son.
2006-12-07 15:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is never easy for anyone, but you have every right not to let her near your son. If she is sick of hearing about him, what is she going to do if he is there with them. I'm with you.
2006-12-07 15:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about wanting him around her. Why do you want this LOSER around you and your son??? Let her have him!!!
2006-12-07 15:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by marisanj 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
grl your not self fish
2006-12-07 15:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by 509 girlz in this place 2 b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is tired of hearing about him cause maybe she never sees him. wat are you annoyed at that he loves her and not you? get over yourself and let him see his kid. I see why yall broke up LOL
2006-12-07 15:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋