If you have read my last question about the abusive relationship, I took the advice and got the police involved. I am now in another relationship, and he treats me like a queen, I dont really get to see him much, he works on the rigs, so he works one week and off the other, I have known him for years now, and he just seems so perfect for me, Everyone says we are the couple that we are going to take it to marrige, I want to he is just so perfect, but i dont want to get into a relationship and get to attached. What should i do??? Go for the LONG HALL, or Just see how things are doing?
2006-12-07 07:03:47 · 17 answers · asked by *~.:.Money-Maker.:.~* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He'll be the one that can always put a smile on your face, still give you butterflies in your stomach, gives you compliments even when you look your worst, just wants to hold you, and does all he can to keep you together. You can feel it. Go with the feeling you have.
2006-12-07 09:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by linzee_06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think is right. Only you know how you feel, not us. If he treats you right and is a good working man, then I don't see the problem. I can understand why you wouldn't want to get so attatched, because of your previous relationship, but you can't let the past stop you from moving on with your life. I hope nothing but the best for you and your new man, remember treat him good, just like he treats you! Good luck!
2006-12-07 07:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by Yeah. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you happy together (i.e. stimulate each other both, mentally and physically)? Then take the relationship up a notch. You will never be able to protect yourself completely from the possibility of deceit, abuse or heartbreak. Be genuine with yourself and let the future take its course. If you are not truly into your relationship, then maybe you should do both of you a favor and break it off now.
P.S. Your friends do not know what goes on inside yours or his heads, therefore, take their compliments as compliments only.
2006-12-07 07:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by sosoa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know.
I'm sorry - but look at the number of marriages which end up in divorce courts...
Live each day at a time. Do the best you can for today, Love with all your heart, make concessions, hope that he will too. If it lasts, its wonderful. If it doesn't, it probably couldn't be helped.
2006-12-07 07:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get premarital counseling. You are in what is called the "honeymoon" stage of a relationship. This is when everything is peaches and cream. You still have not resloved your baggage. If you do not fix yourself, and push it down and pretend it does not exist it will erupt later and be worse.
2006-12-07 07:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will depend on you and your partner. If both of you will really work hard to keep your relationship then good. Sometimes maturity is needed to help us attain our happiness. Be more caring and understanding towards each other. and the rest follows.
2006-12-07 07:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes ,the right one is the next one, and sometimes they are not. Go into expecting fun and follow it down the road and see where it leads. Don't always try to figure things out.
2006-12-07 07:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by dominicaquilino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow, let go...let flow...let love. Let it simmer see where time takes it do not rush. Easier said than done when you really like someone. But time will tell if he is the Mr. Right or Mr. Right now.
2006-12-07 07:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to see how much longer the relationship will be in good standing before you think about taking it a little further
2006-12-07 07:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by lo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If after so many years you find yourself thinking about him all the time and missing him and he makes you smile when you think about him.....he could be the one but you and you alone can determine that, no one here can answer this question for you....listen to your heart
2006-12-07 07:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋