My husband and I have been tyring for 6 months and we both have children from previos marriages but we cannot seem to get pregnant. It doesnt make since to me that it is so hard. I have been taking tests to know when I ovulate exactly and it still isn't working what is wrong.
2006-12-07 07:00:52 · 9 answers · asked by Venessa A 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
It took my cousins two years to get pregnant, and niether one of them had fertility problems. I think it's just a matter of timing. Even though it happens thousands of times a day, getting pregnant is actually a pretty complicated process with a lot of different factors influencing it. If you can rule out any infertility problems, then I guess it will just happen when it happens. Good luck!
2006-12-07 07:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by redzodd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are your own problem. Conception is something done at a pleasurable time without a clock on schedule times of possibility. Let the good times roll With the natural passion you have for one another instead of the stress and worrying about whether or not you got in bed during ovulation time. Patience is a virtue. Relax, Release, And Enjoy.
2006-12-07 07:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ja'Licious 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not a Doc I can't make a diagnosis but I do recommend the book Taking Charge of your fertility by Toni Weschler. I am in a similar boat and the book has taught me
TONS on how to tell if I am ovulating - when to time intercourse for best resaultsetc - I am feeling much more optimistic this month thatnks to all we've learned.
2006-12-07 07:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by family_matters 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start temping in the mornings this site tells you how to do it
http://www.storknet.com/cubbies/preconception/bbt.htm
then use this site to chart it
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/
This site is a forum where girls can chat about TTC......Please look at this one they can be so helpful
www.justmommies.com
Checking cervical mucus can tell you when your fertile...here's the site for that
http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/cervical-mucus.html
Checking your cervix. You need to scroll down some cause the first part we have covered already
http://www.womenshealthlondon.org.uk/leaflets/cycle/cyclechanges.html
Using ovulation predictor kits (these can get expensive....(I recommend ordering them in bulk on line or using the dollar tree)
I also recommend this book
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0060937645/bookstorenow57-20
If you have a 28 day cycle then you are likely to ovulate around the 14th day after your period. You would want to have sex before during and after this time! Have sex every other day cause everyday will lower his sperm count!
2006-12-07 07:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by angelmwilson 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband & I tried for 2.5 years with our first son...had a miscarriage a year after he was born...another 1.5years went by before we had our second baby boy..and another 1.5years before i got pregnant this time!!! They say not to worry until it's been more then a year! Don't worry it will come..don't focus on it so much...it seems as though it only happenes when you "give up" persay! LOL GOOD LUCK
2006-12-07 07:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by mommyof372802 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-03 16:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by Berman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, dont worry. Second, go to the doctor and get a check up (both of you) just for peace of mind. I tried for 3 years until I got pregnant....and it was when I least expected it.....
2006-12-07 11:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by Boom Boom! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The average couple takes about 8 months to conceive. Depending on what type of birth control you were on before it can be longer.
2006-12-07 07:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when u least expect it it'll happen
stop trying so hard god will send you a baby when its that time....
pray with all your heart
Good luck !!!
2006-12-07 07:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋