i was married for about 19 months. And since i got married i got a weird monthly period.Sometimes i dont have menstration for about 2 months or 1 month. I tried 2 home pregnancy test but it says negative. I dont like going to doctor because i just get disappointed. We really want to have a baby but its so hard for me. This year I've been to my ob-gyn several times but i almost gave up since nothings happens. He just get blood samples, give me some fertility tabs, and utrasounds but still nothing happens.....somebody out there have same problem like mine..ever since i have a regular period only now that i get married becomes weird. I didnot take any pills....What is the best way to get pregnant???
2006-12-07 06:41:31 · 7 answers · asked by Jajajhing 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
You could have a problem with your eggs, or with your endometrial lining...it may be inhospitable to a fertilized egg. Definitely you should go see a fertility specialist. Many people don't realize that women are probably pregnant more times than they think, if you are defining pregnancy by conception. More often than not, the egg and sperm meet and divide together fine. But it is not until that fertilized egg firmly implants in the uterine wall that you have a viable pregancy. Many times, the fertilized egg gets washed out with the rest of the lining when you shed it every month.
2006-12-07 06:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by julieadam1997 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to consider seeing a fertility specialist. Even though you dislike going to the doctor, that's probably your best bet. You can always try counting from the first day of your period until about the 10th day and then try conceiving again. You're most fertile from your 10th-14th dyas.
2006-12-07 14:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all quit try en, enjoy you spouse,relax and try not to think of it has try en to have a child, think of it as haven a great evening with your love, a lot of time a missed period is from stress, plan a romantic evening, a good dinner a nice walk in the park, candles and a nice bath together and relax and enjoy each other and it will happen. all the doctors in the world cant help if you are try en to hard......
2006-12-07 14:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by killips1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get pregnant is to STOP TRYING.
You're freaking out over wanting to MAKE yourself pregnant and some how GET pregnant that you stress your body out and make it impossible.
When you stop trying, and just focus on living your life and doing other things, and not even think about getting pregnant, it'll happen in an instant.
I wasted two years trying to make myself pregnant. I finally took my moms advice and stopped trying. I got pregnant one cycle later.
I had the exact same deal you did.
Just stop trying.
2006-12-07 14:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and try again, sometimes it takes poeple a long time. Maybe your Dr. could suggest a fertility dr, just to make sure that there are plenty of good eggs and that your husband has plenty of sperm. :) Good luck
2006-12-07 14:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by kaelynnsmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it up to god! but if you must just buy a fertilitily calender or something! And also just have stress free sex lol if ur stressed it makes it harder to concieve!
2006-12-07 15:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by kmiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to meet gramps in an ally way. Use your imagination from there
2006-12-07 14:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋