My wife has lost her sex drive and we are trying to find a way of her getting it back. Any ideas? (sensible answers if possible)
2006-12-07 06:33:33 · 14 answers · asked by chris 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Hi, I am also going through this as your wife is. I cannot express the guilt, sorrow I have for my husband. I had a hysterectomy a few years ago. And I am also on a lot of medication for fybromyalgia. You need to find out what has been going on with your wife and her health. The guilt I have is so very tremendous for my husband. I have offered to him to find a gal for his needs. I'm very lucky for he says we will get through this. I can also tell you all the Dr's. I have seen about this problem all say there is nothing they can do to help. Yes that is depressing. If you really love your wife as I know my husband does you will get through this. We joke about it now. It is life. I love my husband and if it happened to him I would stand by him. Plus there are other ways that I can at least pleasure him.
2006-12-07 07:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by aluckylildevil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on her age, is she bogged down with kids, work, keeping up with the house etc. All these things play a role with a woman's sex drive, even her hormones could be out of whack and cause the decrease in libido. Is she taking any new medication? Take in consideration of what is going on in your all's life and then start to make the corrections. You all are on the right path by working "together." Maybe she needs a day to herself, help with the kids, have the blue flu and miss a day of work. Do something spontaneous that makes you both feel good and at the same time try to incorporate some new moves that brings some spice back to the bedroom.
2006-12-07 06:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by be happier own a pitbull 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife has female sexual dysfunction. I've had it myself and sadly the medical profession are mostly unhelpful. But try your GP anyway, sometimes pyscho-sexual counselling can help, but most of all be patient with her shes likely to be as frustrated as you are and probably feels like shes going mental.I know because I've had it. I thought that I would never want sex again but now I have a normal sex life. You could also try doing a google search for info about this american sites are usually more helpful as they recognise it more than we do over here.Good Luck there is hope.
2006-12-07 08:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try figuring out what drove you guys before.
Was it the threat of being caught? Was it something you used to do before that you don't anymore? Is the romance lost?
Try doing some old romantic things, go to the old restaurants you used to go, and get roses, lingerie and candles involved in your evening.
Foreplay is key! There should be lots of kissing. Do you ever just make out for the sake of making out anymore? Let both of you get extremely aroused. And fool around with manual and oral stimulation. The longer time you give her before sex, the more opportunities she has to become more aroused.
And if you really want to get kinky, blindfolds or whipped cream can make a fun evening and bring a lot of giggles, if anything.
Good luck!
2006-12-07 06:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by Kendra G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
has something happened to make her lose her sex drive? New baby, bad news or hard working hours? If not it could be that she isn't feeling too confident in herself, perhaps she just needs you to reassure her that's she is sexy and make her feel wanted and needed. try not to concentrate on sex...have a nice evening together, go out, have fun, reconnect with each other. Let it happen naturally without any pressure and above all enjoy one another.
2006-12-07 10:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by Chill_Out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of time female get in a sex move by eating fruit like strawberry with wrip cream or watching a love story on t.v. Try renting a love story and eating some love fruit.
2006-12-07 06:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a new customer who claims that Pomegranate Supplements help with loss of libido. Appearently it is a natural alternative to hormone replacement therapy which is supposed to help with "..hot flashes, night sweats, poor libido, and mood swings." I hope this helps or your find another answer to your problem.
2006-12-07 07:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mike F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to tell you that women dont think of sex the way men do,we dont have to have it whenever we get an urge,some women can go months without any and it wouldnt bother them,maybe your family circumstances are the cause,if ye are fighting that can make a woman lose her sex drive,a woman cant be just turned on,you have to make her feel special,give her flowers,go on a date,hold hands,give her loads of foreplay and enjoy
2006-12-07 06:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by corkbabe55 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I read to peel a cucumber for a salad will bring it back.
The aroma smell does something to a woman.
U could get her some ginseng tablets too.
2006-12-07 06:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take it slowly take her out and just treat extra special going a way for a wkend could work
2006-12-07 13:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by munchie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋