how do you stop crying over what's just not meant to be?

Answer 1

There is no 'meant to be', there is only what is. You stop crying after enough time has gone by for you to accept the loss and move on.

Answer 2

I know how you feel-thank you for asking this question, because I've been meaning to ask, but somehow was unsure of asking. My advice, is to live each day by day, and if your religious thank God that for other wonders in your life-or that at least you have your health; and aren't homeless-little things. If that doesn't work, well you can wallow all you want, it is your emotions, but also try to find new interests to help you forget and try to think of the future ahead with that, you don't know what tomorrow brings and tomorrow might just bring you happiness-guidance, and slowly but surely you'll move on. It's ok that you'll never completely forget, but as long as start to realize that things happen for a reason, and unfortunately somethings that we would want most in life aren't mean to me, but we've done our share of cry and are now slowly moving to what we can have and enjoy it, then you'll be fine. God bless. It is just a matter of time, but believe me, someday something/someone will change your life and for the better.

Answer 3

You just survive for awhile, then you notice a flower, then 2 flowers, then the sky and the sunshine... after you cry for awhile...

Answer 4

Good question...time will heal your wounds. Later you will realize that sometimes what we think we WANTso very badly, is just not what we really NEED. Be patient.

Answer 5

Some people say that acceptence is key but becoming apathetic is also dangerous.

Answer 6

Grow up.

Answer 7

pray