2006-12-07 06:18:00 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, that's not good at all. You two need to sit back a reevaluate your relationship. Something is going on with one of you. Fighting about nothing everyday is a big sign. Ask yourself a few questions like...1 does he/she like spending time with me.....2 has the way he/she treat me changed at all...3 are you to able to talk about things the way you use to...Follow your guts everybody, it wont lie to you.
2006-12-07 06:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it can be a bad sign, but you are probably also under lots of stress with a wedding coming up. Just remember you will be with each other every single day and night in the future so if you think it's something that will last, or get worse, maybe you need some more time and some premarital counseling. My husband and I never fought before we were married. We have been married for 8 years now and we still only argue maybe once a week if that. I have friends who fight with their spouses every day and they are miserable. Good luck making such a hard decision!
2006-12-07 14:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mada 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup, bad sign. Post phone the wedding FAST. Seriously, it could be just nerves, but why take a chance. Sitdown and talk and ask each other if you REALLY want to do this, or are you doing it because you think you're supposed to (because you've been dating for a long time) or you're being pressure to (family asking, 'So ,when are you two going to get married?") If you're fighting over nothing now, imaging when you're legally married and know there is no simple way out except a costly divorce.
2006-12-07 14:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is NOT a bad sign. My husband and I fought ALL through the ' planning' process. Know when to laugh, and when to cry, and when to yell, and when to go see you friends. Planning a wedding was miserable, by the time the day was finally here, I realized how lucky I was to be marrying such a wonderful man, who put up with all my crap, and let me choose everything for my special day, even though he wanted alot of different things.
The day will come and go in a blink of an eye, and all you will remember is how ' so much in love ' you were on that day..
Best wishes, you will get through this, its one day , of the rest of your life.
2006-12-07 14:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by noahsmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that's a bad sign.
It COULD be due to the pressure you're both under over the wedding...but nine months off, unless you're planning the wedding of the decade, that probably isn't it.
Remember that if you're thinking of calling it off, it's very very painful...and will only get more painful the longer you wait. Unless you're 100% sure this is the one for you, you shouldn't be getting married. You owe each other that much honesty - so talk it over with your fiance.
2006-12-07 14:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only a sign that you've been spending too much time together. Take a vacation away from each other for a little while. Relationships take effort and patience..... NO ONE SEEMS TO UNDERSTAND THIS. Just take it easy and try to be laid back about things. Nothing is so important to fight with someone you love. Unless they've been stabbing you in the legs while you sleep... then you can be mad.
2006-12-07 14:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by iamsoboredandtired 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont' think it's a bad thing... depending on your situation maybe you need to spend some time apart... go for a weekend with your friends. maybe planning the wedding is stressing you out... i guess the way i look at it... if you are getting married and fighting, then you need to step back and decide why your are fighting.... sit down and have a convo with them... you should be able to do that considering your about to commit yourself to them for the rest of your life... be honest with eachother and if need be take some space.... plan something romantic to do together
2006-12-07 14:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
fighting before marriage is quite common. Its stressful to make plans for a wedding. If the fights persist for some time, you both may want to sit down and figure out what is really bothering you. If you both feel the need to slow down, then PLEASE push the wedding back. 85% of marriages of people between the ages of 18-25 end in divorce. So be careful.
2006-12-07 14:19:38 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Yes.
End it now before you ruin some kids life by acting like this in a marriage and passing it down the line to their generation.
Bad luck. Very very bad joujou.
Either that, or go to pre-marriage counselling to see what is really happening and have your fight directed in a constructive direction. Post pone the marriage until everything is sovled.
2006-12-07 14:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking it's because you know it's bad. I would take a break and make sure this is the person you want to be married to for the rest of your life.
2006-12-07 14:19:51 · answer #10 · answered by marisanj 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋