2006-12-07 06:06:13 · 11 answers · asked by Inno 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
"Should" you worry about it? There is no 'should'. You either do or you don't. Seems to me they're saying that you hide your feelings. You either think that's a good way to be, or you don't.
2006-12-07 06:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am someone who can read people pretty well. On occassion I meet someone that I can't read and it intrigues me. I get into their life and try to figure out why I can't read them.
I would guess (not knowing you) that you don't wear your emotions on your sleeve so to speak. You may be withholding your true self when you're around people. Self preservation is a reason for this.
Try opening up to just 1 friend completely. Share your innermost thoughts, dreams, fears. If that person can't read you after that, who knows. Maybe they're just not discerning. Maybe you simply don't show your emotions as much as others may.
2006-12-07 14:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by BaseballGrrl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a flaw in you; friends may be trying to tell you that they themselves are insecure about their own standing with you. Tell the people you care about what they mean to you.
On the flip side, some that say it to you may be trying to figure out your points of manipulation for their advantage. Shallow people look for the cheat sheet on you but a person of better quality will be patiently getting to know the real you without any agenda.
2006-12-07 14:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mere Exposure 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to be perfectly honest with you iwent through this before. you dont have to be worried when people say that they cant "read" you its just a hyped up way of saying that you are a very special person and that they appreciate the fact that you arent labled. if you want to talk e-mail me @ necrocrisis66@yahoo.com. i would love to help you out w/ any problems you have.
2006-12-07 14:19:02 · answer #4 · answered by Marukka S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No i wouldn't be worried about it,
The only one that knows you is yourself
and God knows you better than anyone.
May God bless you and have a great day
2006-12-07 14:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by jan d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Of course not. You are what you are, and if anybody can't understand you, it is that they lag behind in knowing people. You live up to your expectations and be satisfied with whatever you are. You live for yourself, right? :-)
2006-12-07 14:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by Swathi Rao 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah it means your unpredicatble, thats good. Also if they wernt one day your friends anymore than they cant read you so they pose no threat. just dont give out any weakness
2006-12-07 14:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by black_dragon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah its better that way
if you can 'read them' then you have the advantage ;)
if people cant tell how youre feeling, then your ahead of them
very good for backstabbing :D
2006-12-08 19:49:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you're stealthy. It makes you unpredictable. It's just that you mask yourself better than others. I'm stealthy myself =).
2006-12-07 14:29:24 · answer #9 · answered by Soggy Waffles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be. Means you are constantly hiding things! Open up.
2006-12-07 14:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by Trinette 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋