i have been with this guy for almost a year i lost my big v to him i've had a Misscarriage and all. but he broke up with me but he says that he still wants to be friends and he is like he calls me everynigth we talk he comes down we still have sex but he has a girlfriend everyone is telling me to live him alone but i can't so what should i do.......... please i need ur help should i stop being friends to and just leave him all together.........
2006-12-07 05:43:41 · 4 answers · asked by cookie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is being unfair to you. If he has a girlfriend it means he has already moved on but when he wants to remain friends with you and still have sex with you he is merely taking advantage of the fact that he knows you still have feelings for him.
You should cut ties with him... I know it's really hard I am going through a break up myself but for as long as you give him this kind of access to you, you will never move on. You deserve better- trust me.
Maybe just limit it to talking on the phone only until you get used to not seeing him around.
2006-12-07 05:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT "just friends" with this guy! Being "just friends" doesn't involve having sex! What is it about YOU that would be attracted to someone who doesn't want to be with you in a healthy relationship? Do you not feel whole or complete without a man? Let him go--he obviously doesn't love you if he already has a girlfriend! Tell God what your hearts' desires are, and then wait on Him to put the RIGHT person in your path--one who will love you, respect you, adore you, and grow closer together with you. In the meantime, connect with emotionally healthy people that can help you work through the issues that attract you to such a man as this guy! (Emotions Anonymous or Relationships Anonymous may be a great place to start!)
2006-12-07 06:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by Susan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should move on this guy is a waiste of time it isnt your fault get over it girl lol
2006-12-07 05:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Becca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him
2006-12-07 05:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋