My brother's girl is pregant but i don't think that it is his. My brothers girlfrien is what you whould call a H**. Not in the sense that she will slep with alot of girls, but that she acks like one in many ways!!!!... She tells my brother one day that she is pregnant and that she missed her thing...before she was relly supose to... she said that she had gotten knocked up on her birthday and if that was so then she would be due on the 27th og july. when she went to the clinic the said that her due date was on the 11th of july at the latest . this means that she got pregnant 2 weeks before she says she did....................Now my brother has excepted this fact,,,,but yesterday, he was talking with this guy and the guy didn't know who he was-- being the girls boyfriend-- He told him that he just found out that his girlfriend was pregnant and when my brother asked what her name was, he gave her name!!!!!!
Sence I'm a girl he wants me to get invoved. So haow do i confront her w/the info
2006-12-07 05:39:40 · 16 answers · asked by Lordes D 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I Know that a child is invoved and just want the best thing for it in a long run....But my brother is a sinor and if it isn't his baby, he could really lose alot........
2006-12-07 05:49:03 · update #1
from the way she went about trying to hide the due date, i thinh somethig is up.... also she is showing signs like she is farther along than the doc.. think!!!!!
2006-12-07 05:52:42 · update #2
he iis not thinking about leaving her, he is just having mixed feelings ..... also he is finhof giving her the cold shoulder and i don't know if he is reacting right .... by blocking he out....
2006-12-07 06:11:59 · update #3
Girl I was in the same situation with my brother! The same exact thing happend. . .it caused alot of drama but even though you dont get along with her or whatever the case is you wouldnt want someone stressing you out when you were pregnant. From a sister's point of view you want to look out for your brothers best interest. I do think both guyus should confront her about it. But really get a DNA test when the baby is born! First thing! Dana doesnt lie!
2006-12-07 05:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by lorisbarbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a hard situation because either way there is a baby involved. i think everyone should just calm down and when the baby is born get a DNA test, that is the only way you are going to know for sure. i understand that its your brother and you care about him, but really its not a situation he should have brought you into, yes that is your niece or nephew, but that is your brothers child (possibly) and he needs to be there for the mother no matter what right now and deal with all the drama after the little one comes. remember though this is a baby we are talking about its not their fault any of this is happening so make sure any choice you make is the right one, just be there for your family and let them deal with the important things.
2006-12-07 05:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Due dates aren't exact, especially based just on menstrual cycles. I would tell your brother that although you love him, this isn't your issue. It's between him and his girlfriend. Show love, but don't be too quick to judge... people talk a lot. The other guy could be just causing problems... some people are just like that. In the end, there's always the good 'ol paternity test.
2006-12-07 05:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by tonetones03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your brother needs to confront her, being that she's trying to pin the child on him. How??? Just tell her straight out what you know and what rumors or gossip that has been floating around about her and the pregnancy. A child is a very precious, innocent thing...shouldn't have to deal with the question...who's REALLY my Daddy?
2006-12-07 05:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing he can do is get a paternity test done but I am afraid that can only be done after the baby is born.
A paternity test is always right, if it says he is not the dad then he is not the dad. I would suggest that as soon as the baby is born he request one, they can probably do it at the hospital right after the baby is born.
2006-12-07 06:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she very well could have concived on her b-day, considering that they mark you pregnant two weeks before you really are. And if she didnt ask enough ?'s or has not read up on the 411 she would not know that. I think you should leave well enough alone, and don't stress that girl out she is with child, no mattter if its your brothers or not.
2006-12-07 05:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously cheated so I don't think she knows who the daddy is either....
You all should wait until the baby is born and perform a DNA test...
As for now, just tell your brother not to go crazy, we know it's hard, but he's got to wait...
2006-12-07 05:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by Sairax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to ahve to wait till that baby is born then everyone involved go for DNA testing. He might want to confront her about what this other guy told him and dort it out for sure whether or not she is cheatingon him.
2006-12-07 06:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The doctor calculates your due date based on the start of your last period- 2 weeks before you actually get pregnant. I'd butt out.
2006-12-07 05:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can confront her all you want, but theres really no way to get her to admit it unless she wants to. just in case it is his baby, dont stress her out too much cause it could hurt the baby. just wait til its born and get a dna test, thats really the only way you can prove it unless she admits something.
2006-12-07 05:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋