So from my previous question about this (go to my questions if you want to read it) I am gettign the opinion that all most of you feel that I should just let her go.
Now my question is, in ending the friendship should I tell her why or just end it?
*Brief summary for those of you that do not know*
I am in love with an old friend, and I know that she loves me. But she is married. I cannot just be her friend anymore, so I eithe rtell her how I feel or just walk away.
But in walking away shoudl I tell her why I am doing it? Do I say "I can no longer be just your friend, I love you and cannot go without you. But I know that I cannot be with you, so rather than be in this situation I have to say goodby". Or something along those lines, or should I just say "We cannot be friends anymore" and leave it t that?
2006-12-07 05:36:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh my god, u r an ***!!!!
2006-12-07 10:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by Black a neeezzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to tell her you are ending the friendship. Just get other hobbies to bide your time. Go on dates with other women. Seems to me you want drama or want her to come running out the door after you like some cheesey movie.
2006-12-07 13:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by poisonette 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will tell you this, Dont walk away wthout her knowing how you feel. Tell her. I would rather hear the words of why goodbye is happening rather than silence.
2006-12-07 14:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by DOMINATUS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how she makes you feel, but that you can't hang on waiting for something that will probably never happen. I have been there before and walking away is harder than hoping she will be with you, but you are worth more than this!
GOOD LUCK SWEETY
2006-12-07 13:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Tammy R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should explain her the reason - just as you did here. I'm sure she will not be surprised to hear that - by now, she's gotta be aware of how you feel about her.
2006-12-07 13:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just stop being so dramatic. Tell her you're busy and feel awkward seeing her behind her husband's back and move on.
2006-12-07 13:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT ruin her marriage....u are better than that
simply walk away believe me she knows
2006-12-07 13:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter what you say so long as it's goodbye
2006-12-07 13:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by SINISTER MEMPHISTO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you must tell him why end
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2006-12-07 13:38:35 · answer #9 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋