my husband is thinkin about leavin with his boss to another state workin and will be making alot of money. the money is good and siad he will send me money to help me with bills and all but i'm not feeling to good about him leaving me.
2006-12-07 05:12:10 · 10 answers · asked by browneyes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe try this for awhile and see how you feel about it ,If its only for a short while then you should be just fine .If its for a long time or a permanate job in another state consider moving to that state .Lots of spouses must deal with there spouses being away sometimes wether it be for a job ,military, school etc .If your hubby is doing this to improve your lives and make life more pleasant for your family then support him .You'll be so glad you did .Absence does make the heart grow fonder and makes you appreciate ech other even more when you are together. It's never an easy desision to make but he is your hubby and i'm assuming you trust him .Give him a chance to show you what he can do and be .he'll love you even more because you loved him enough to do this.Good luck !
2006-12-07 05:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by sparklin_aries_4167 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there anyway you can relocate so that you are closer to him and/or why can't you go with him?
If it is only a month or two things will be fine, just remember it is only temporary.
My sis-in-law's husband lives in a different country they have been living like this for three years now it seems to work out well for them... But me well I wouldn't like it at all! I never have and never will do a long distance relationship no matter what kind it is, I need my man near me at all times, but thats just me others wouldn't mind it at all... (It might all depend on the situation and if it were for no more then a few weeks or a month, then it would be o.k.)
Best of luck to you.
2006-12-07 13:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a wife, or a female, but I can say that it would bother me too. Is there a reason you can't go with him? Can't you guys just make a move to where ever the new job is going to be?
Will he come home on the weekends? How much money will he be sending? Is this a full time job or is it for a set period of time?
Depending on the answers to the above questions I would probably say pick the job or pick me, but there is not point of being married, but living single!
2006-12-07 13:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you move with him? That all sounds a little fishy. Him moving out of state and you not going with him. You right to not feel good about that. If you agree with that out of state, the next thing you know you will be without a husband. Talk to your husband about you and family going with him.
2006-12-07 13:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is his boss female? Because "something is rotten in Denmark" Tell him I said so. He'll send you money? No indication on how long it's going to last? This sounds like a separation to me. Sorry but that's how it sounds. Tell him you deserve more information than he's offering. Good luck!
2006-12-07 13:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by N0_white_flag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is a Marine..Wait let me re-write that My EX husband...Get it..
nuff said
2006-12-07 13:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are difficult. You two should really talk about this and be honest about how you feel.
2006-12-07 13:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by suziemay24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut feelings... or talk it Thur with him and let him know your feelings.
2006-12-07 13:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Becky ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be young.....
You'll love his "road trips" when you get older!!!
2006-12-07 13:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what will you do about your needs?
2006-12-07 13:14:19 · answer #10 · answered by aaron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋