My best mate is always staring at the guy I like. I know he doesn't like her but she used to like him. She's always trying to listen in onto his conversations so she can join in and I know that she isn't doing that for me. Even though he doesn't like her, it's bugging me. How do I tell her to back off and find her own guy?
2006-12-07 05:03:11 · 8 answers · asked by CityGirl21 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Until he is your guy...don't worry about it. If you were dating then this would be an issue...
She isn't treading in your water...she is just looking at it.
2006-12-07 05:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by ÐIESEŁ ÐUB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's simple. Just sit her down and explain how it makes you feel. Tell her that if she values your friendship then she needs to quit flaunting herself in front of the guy you like. If she doesn't stop, just refuse to be in contact with her. Friends can not flirt with their friend's guy. It's a sacred rule!
2006-12-07 13:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Kristen H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get that ALL the time with this one little sIut in my math class. She keeps staring at my boyfriend who sits near me. I told that lil ***** to get the hell outta that class room before I do some damage to her, and she listened to me ... but she hates me now ... good.
2006-12-07 13:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her in a nice,peacefull way.Tell her that you are tired of her always likeing the guys that you like or looking at them.But you have to be nice when you say.It but if she gets smart get smart back.
2006-12-07 13:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl let her know! do not hold back, i'm sure after she notices how upset you are she'll back off, you have to be stern with her, and watch her around your guys.
2006-12-07 13:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be real with her and let her know. It is on her how she takes it. You better go after what you want.
2006-12-07 13:05:52 · answer #6 · answered by Bout It 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you like him and dont appreciate her trying to go after him.
2006-12-07 13:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you like him. tell her if she was really your friend she shouldn't be doing this. DIZZ HER. she doesn't sound like a good friend.
2006-12-07 13:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by mommie2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋