2006-12-07 04:54:36 · 16 answers · asked by kosh 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
because you love them & you're not scared of them.
SINCE FEAR & LOVE CAN HARDLY EXIST 2GETHER,
IT'S FAR MORE SAFER TO CHOOSE TO BE FEARED OF THAN LOVED.
2006-12-07 13:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by enki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's easier to hurt someone you love because they actually care about what you do and say. You could say the exact same thing to someone that doesn't love you and to someone that you truly love and end up with entirely different results. You may (hopefully unintentionally) hurt the one you love and the other person wouldn't waste two seconds thinking about it. The same goes for actions as well. The person you love is more likely to make you angry from time to time and you're going to feel more passionate about it because you have such strong feelings for them!! My recommendation would be to stay away from anyone that causes you more harm than good, even if there are strong feelings. From experience, I can tell you that you will find someone else that will treat you better. Also be careful not to damage anyone else!! Best wishes :)
2006-12-07 06:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by fantabulous77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love means never having to say you are sorry, so you'll never put yourself in such situation where apologies have to be rendered, simply because you love the person truly.
That also means that you could never hurt someone you truly love, just as you could never harm your own body. Yes, true love is a rarity.
2006-12-07 05:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurting the ones you love is actually but strangelly the only way to be sure you still really do love them. When u realise that hurting them actyally hurts you too or makes you feel weird, you still have it.
2006-12-07 04:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by momalad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we hurt most people, but we just notice it in those we love, because we know them the most, or we notice when they are hurting, or something like that.
2006-12-07 06:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by joy_hardyman2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because human beings make mistakes, and as the old saying goes you don't know what you've got till its gone. its natural to sometimes hurt the ones that we love, realising it and making up for it is the most important thing.
2006-12-07 04:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by peroxide.pixie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're the one closest to you, and therefore the one easiest to lash out at. As well as you know what hurts them the most.
2006-12-07 04:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by Elven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's probably from taking the loved one for granted and believing it doesn't matter, s/he can take it. It may also be a sign of subconscious resentment or hostility.
2006-12-07 05:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by The Gadfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hurt someone you love, chances are you don't really love them...
2006-12-07 04:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by Richard Dayy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hurt the one closest to you cos its easier to hurt them than hurt yourself ? ........ we,re all hurting inside for all kinds of reasons ...... some reasons we know why, and some we don't want to know ........ but the pain is there ? ......... to counteract that pain we hurt the one closest to us because they are there ........ its a way of relieving the pain that's inside of us ?
2006-12-10 08:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by spikyb7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they'll usually love you back the same even if you do hurt them
2006-12-07 04:56:11 · answer #11 · answered by naughty boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋