its seems that everything is ok in your life...but you look around and understand that you are not happy...is it temporary or you should change your life?
2006-12-07 04:51:13 · 18 answers · asked by Yana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Very temporary, especially at this time of year as some people become very depressed during holiday season. In reality though people should take a good long look at their lives and see how good they actually have it as there are many people who have things much worse in their lives.
2006-12-07 04:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change is always good for the better of course. But when most people evaluate their life they find some unhappiness but I believe that it is temporary if you make it temporary. If you sit around and hope that things will change on its own then you will stay in the funk as I would call it. But if you decide to do something about it then the end of the tunnel seems to be a little more brighter. Here's a thought; how would you know what happiness is if you never experienced sadness or being unhappy? You are going to go through your ups and downs in life. Take it for what its worth.
2006-12-07 04:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by wise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life will always throw u curve balls, so I think u should just roll with the punches. Some days are good, other days are bad, but life would be boring if we were happy all the time. Unless there is a reason u r unhappy....something in particular. and if that's the case, then yes, u should take measures to change what exactly is making u unhappy. Change is good sometimes.
2006-12-07 04:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the ultimate control of your life and your happiness, you can change it and put yourself in a happier situation, life is never easy though sweetie, there are times that are tougher than others and we sometimes just have to roll w/ it until the brighter times come along, but if you are truly unhappy then do something about it, don't make yourself miserable, life it soo short, live it to the fullest! If you are not happy, don't expect the people around you to be happy either!
2006-12-07 04:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by slf620 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think it all depends on how you feel lately... I you are not happy for something bad that just happpend then that migth be the reason that you think everyone is happy except you !!!AMybe yes you need a change of life , maybe meet new people go out more and have fun, think positively and always in the morning give thanks for one more day and to be a special day... don't take your problems too personal that also affect your mood and think that there will be better things for you day by day!!! Of course life is difficult sometimes but is a challenge we need to take that will make us strong !!! GOOD LUCK & BE HAPPY !!!!
2006-12-07 05:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy that you are alive and everything is ok in your life. Look around and see those unlucky people who have cancer, limited lives and so on, who is more miserable? You should feel bless and be satisfied with what you are now. If you feel that you are too free and have nothing to do, why not try to do some charity work. It might make you understand more about life.
2006-12-07 04:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by Cutebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy, everything is not ok in your life. It could be something external (job, partner, living situation), or it could be something internal (lack of self-esteem, depression, recent emotional trauma, etc.).
In either case, it might help to talk to a therapist or counselor to figure out what is making you unhappy and work on a way to improve your situation.
Until you get a better handle on why you're unhappy, I wouldn't make any major changes in life.
Good Luck!
2006-12-07 05:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by SB Yahoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes changes can be made, just make sure you make the right ones. We all get one chance/one life to make all we can of it. If you aren't happy then you have to do something to change that. We get ONE shot at this life, if 10 years you realize wow i should have done that. No regrets. My sister once asked me how I can to leave my ex husband and the farther of my child. I told her I wasn't happy and couldn't go the rest of the only life I will ever be given being unhappy......be happy, we all deserve it!!!! Best of luck
2006-12-07 04:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by Army Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something to smile about every day. Make sure you laugh once a day. It's temporary; it will go away. Just remember how to think when it comes back. Negative energy attracts negative people, thus the negative thoughts. Be positive, and you'll be surrounded by positive people and have positive thoughts.
2006-12-07 05:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by piper_roggae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not difficult to live,life is what we make out of it,and we have to learn from the day to day situatuions,because there is no other way to grow in life,and earn experience by making mistakes,or just by trying.just to know that the next time I'll do it better and easier
2006-12-07 04:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by Victor D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋