ive been asking this guy ive known for 3 years out for the past month he keeps saying no because of my ex. i finally quit. then he told one of my friends that he was going to ask me out when my divorce is final. should i say no?
2006-12-07 04:43:53 · 8 answers · asked by death_of_faries 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
3 things-
Some of us guys still feel that marriage is sacred and never rub another mans rhubarb.
Secondly there is a chance that he would like to ask you out...not all guys respond to girls that ask out guys. They may feel intimidated etc. By him asking you out it makes him feel like he is putting the ball in your court.
Third- he may finally see that your previous relationship is over and he can see you now differantly and someone he could actually see in his life.
2006-12-07 05:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by ÐIESEŁ ÐUB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your supposed ex is not an ex until the divorce is final...do you see why he keeps saying "no"? Hint: To him, you are still married!
2006-12-07 12:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by nomming 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a time out for yourself for a while once your divorce is final! Give yourself a chance and time to heal, because you're going to need it! Just be honest with yourself and him.
2006-12-07 12:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was saying no because of your divorce thats only reasonable.
If you still have feelings for him i think you should say yes because he was only waiting for the best time to be with you.
Also if he said that he was going to do something hes probabally going to do it so say YES!!
2006-12-07 12:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont say no. He was saying no for his personal views and opinion. Now once your divorce is over, he feels more relaxed about it. Give it a try. Good luck!
2006-12-07 12:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it makes sense if he was waitning for the divorce to be final go for it give him a chance
2006-12-07 12:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by sexyandsingle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say yes if u still like him
2006-12-07 12:48:52 · answer #7 · answered by south e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should say no
2006-12-07 12:52:05 · answer #8 · answered by marissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋