my mom found a condom and a pregnancy test in my pures.what can i do so she can talk to me again?

Answer 1

sit her down and tell her the truth. She angry and disappointed because you lied to her and she worries about you. Tell her you are sorry for lying, and would like to talk to her about what's going on. She may not be happy, but it may help.
I can't imagine my mom giving me the silent treatment, but if she is doing that, and refuses to talk to you, write her a letter & stick it in her purse, or on her pillow.

Answer 2

hummm that's distressing. It's a shame your mom didn't realise that you were already sexual active. It was probably a shock to her, especially if you are quite young. It's tough for parents to come to terms with their children growing up. She has to face up to the fact that you have things in your life she can't control. You are taking risks she can't protect you from. It's very hard. But as a parent it's one of the things you have to learn to do.

First thing to say is sorry. NOT for being sexually active you are the person that you are, you should never have to apologise for that. Clearly you are responsible and sensible enough to understand the risks you are taking and take precations. Your mom should be grateful for that. Say sorry that she found out in that way and that she has been upset by it. Be clear on that "I'm sorry that you are upset." Make sure she knows that you haven't done what you've done to upset her or get back at her. You're just becoming an adult. Listen to what she has to say, do not get involved in a shouting match. If you start getting upset, tell her you need a bit of time to think about what she's said and ask if you can continue the conversation later.

Look at it from your mother's point of view. If you are under sixteen, technically she is aiding a criminal offence if she doesn't do anything. It's a very difficult position for a parent to be in. But if you are ready to have sex then nothing anybody says or does is going to stop you. You can't help it.

Answer 3

Initiate the conversation. I am a mom, and when my daughter was sneaking around, I was hurt. But I was very proud of her for taking the responsibility of using a condom. Don't hide it. Talk to your mom about getting on birth control, but continue to use a condom, it helps stop the spread of STD's. Your mom has every right to look in your purse, or your room. It is her responsibility to keep you safe. Your mom probably feels betrayed for being left out of this important decision of your life. Hiding things is never the solution. Ask mom about when she had sex for the first time, and what she regrets about it. If you are not mature enough to discuss this with her, then you are not ready to be having sex in the first place.

Answer 4

fisrt of all, the male who responded to you first should have used NOW not KNOW, so ignore him, if he can't spell he shouldn't be correcting you.
now then...
she should have respected your personal space and not been in your purse anyway. was the test positive or negative? either way you should talk to her about it. hopefully she will take you to a clinic or the doctor and get you birth control so you don't have to worry as much. condoms should tell her you are being responsible.
if you are under 18 tell her how you feel and that you are trying to protect your self. if you are over 18 add that you are an adult and free to make your own choices.

Answer 5

sit down and explain to her that you are sexually active and you are doing things to protect yourself (condoms). let her know that you are being responsible. She might even take you to the doctor to get on the pill :) by the way how old are you?

Answer 6

That sounds like a personal issue.
My mother would kill me if she found something like that in my purse.
Good luck. Try being honest!

Answer 7

first thing your age is a factor but if ur sexualy active anyway don't wait for her to come to you go to her one answer was my mom would kill me not true she would rather you come to her first but if you didn't do so know sorry for the bad puncuation but i'm in a hurry

Answer 8

you may positioned them of their place. you're an person, and you're loose to have intercourse with whoever you please (granted it grow to be stupid of you and your boyfriend to not use secure practices). tell them there will be no arguing and no debating, you would be the only determining your movements. in the event that they shop going, overlook approximately them and walk away, do not work together with them.

Answer 9

IF I WERE YOU I WOULD WRITE MY MOTHER A LETTER TELLING HER THAT YOU WERE JUST TRYING TO PROTECT YOURSELF! I MEAN WHY WAS SHE EVEN IN YOUR PURSE? YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO PRIVACY, AND WHEN PEOPLE METTLE THEY ARE ASKING FOR PROBLEMS! SO JUST SIT HER DOWN AND EXPLAIN TO HER THAT YOU HAVE TO GROW UP SOME DAY!

Answer 10

How old are you?

First you must learn how to spell,

Next ask fore her forgiveness and be HONEST with her she is your mother not your homegirl or friend however you little girls call your friends know days...

Good Luck!!!