My husband and I are going out of town for a getaway, just a couple hours away, we havnt really been sexually intimate for a while, 1 am 13 weeks pregnant and pretty sick still. But I want to make it special, and I am feeling better now. Any Ideas what we can do? Did your husbands still find you attractive when you where pregnant? That is what worries me.
2006-12-07 04:38:26 · 16 answers · asked by wondering 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Actually my husband almost found me more attractive while pregnant (I have 3 children). My face glowed - probably from nasea but hey. And my breasts enlarged quite nicely - man I miss those days! LOL I think a romantic weekend would be wonderful for the two of you. When your baby arrives, life will certainly change and you and your hubby will be put on the back burner for a while. This would be a wonderful way to enjoy each other - without any distractions. Have fun! :)
2006-12-07 04:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, pregnant women are so much hotter! I think it's one of those sick games that god plays on men.....I mean, come on, why make a woman more beautiful during the time she's most clearly taken by a husband or boyfriend.
If you want to make it special the travel with some goodies such as candles, bubble bath, lingeried, and if you really want go to a novelty store and pick up some sexy games (there are some tasteful ones that exist).
2006-12-07 04:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to smile when I read your question :)
I was sooooo sick with my last child...for months. My doctor was able to give me a medication to help with the sickness so that I was able to go on a little road trip with my hubby and kids. I think that anything you two would enjoy doing together would be romantic, cuz you're together. Enjoy each other. As far as being attractive...just cuz you're pregnant doesn't mean your not attractive to him. Sometimes, it's just the opposite...I think that most men are just afraid that they might hurt you or the baby. Men like to be in control of things, and with something like this...they just can't be. Sometimes, it freaks them out...LOL Honestly...as long as he is gentle with you..there is really no reason anything sexually, etc..has to change. For us, it didn't (well, after all the sickness subsided). I found that my husband and I were even closer than we'd ever been. Hope you feel much better...and believe me, all of it is well worth it!! :)
2006-12-07 04:48:12 · answer #3 · answered by bnsheerose 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would love to have a weekend in a cabin by a peaceful lake somewhere. I, personally love to fish in lakes in Wisconsin, so for me, that would be an ideal romantic getaway weekend for me. I don't know that I would actually do any fishing, if it was just for a weekend and if the purpose was for romance, but the cabin next to the calm lake with the moon shining on the lake at night plus lying out on the side of the lake with my partner during the day, with a picnic lunch, would be great.
2016-05-23 03:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by Pauline 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I am a guy and have to answer this question also. Myself, I found my wife to be the most beautiful I had ever seen her when she was pregnant with our child. There is a special ray of light that beams from the faces of ladies when they are with child and happy about it. As for planning a romantic weekend, plan it the same if you were not pregnant and things will work out naturally. Best of luck on your weekend and on the birth. Again I must apologize as you were looking for female responses but felt I had to answer also. Thanks.
2006-12-07 04:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can have a romantic dinner to star with at a restaurant out prepare something nice and order food to eat at your hotel room, with some candles, nice music, that will be a priavate dinner just for the both of you!! Then after that put on something sexy and after that you will know what to do... But try to seduce him do all the things he like and the once you like too ... He will find you even more sexy and attractive for him.... Just be your self and don't think that you don't look good and feel like you are a sexy girl that will please her husband like always .... GOOD LUCK & have fun!!!!
2006-12-07 04:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the simple fact of you being able to get away and be alone with each other will be great for your relationship, you can rekindle your flame :) My husband LOVED me being pregnant, and I HONESTLY can say that even when I was HUGE! (9lb baby) he still treated me as if i were still 120 lbs :) Men love it! Take along some sexy movies or sex toys to rekindle the flame, you can still play even though you are preg. enjoy this time w/ each other! Good Luck!!
2006-12-07 04:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by slf620 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he NOT find you attractive? Don't get me started on the "I'm FAT" thing. That is NOT fat, that is a child, a child that you made together. I think pregnant women are very beautiful. Your skin is flawless, you are giving life. What would not be beautiful about that? Go on your weekend, have a great time!
2006-12-07 04:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by Bev 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some massage oil and have him rub your back - it will get you into the touch zone and give him some practice for later!
Of course he'll still find you attractive - how do you think that baby got in there?!?
Just relax and have fun, everything else will work itself out.
2006-12-07 04:44:57 · answer #9 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I ever found my wife more attractive than I did when she was pregnant. I think it's because the emotions and thoughts of knowing she was carrying my baby made me want her so bad.
2006-12-07 04:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋