ok heres the low down.....my friend cheated on her boyfriend and her other friend fell out with her and decided to get revenge by writing a note telling her boyfriend about the cheating....she gave it to the boyfrien with a picture of the 2 cheaters on it but they were not kissing in the pic or anything......the boyfriend doesnt believe the note....but it is true.....when I was asked was it true i said I don't know...but now I feel guilty for not telling him....do you think I should tell him the truth even though before this myself and her boyfriend had been fighting
2006-12-07 04:06:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am guessing that you are the other guy. Did you do this to come between him and her? That is what she's gonna think if you tell him the truth. (She's gonna be mad at you, but might get over it in time, she's just as much to blame). Actually, that is what he's gonna think ,also. (He'll be mad at the both of you). He's gonna keep an eye on the two of you from now on.
The public opinion's answer seems to be yes. Tell the truth and your plan has worked. Or deny it and keep the secret. Well ... me and my suspicious mind.
2006-12-07 04:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know thats hard but for me i would be totally honest about it!! I had a family member find out that my boyfriend cheated and never told me but later on after we split up they told me and i was pretty hurt by this so you know if you are a good friend you will tell the truth and the bible says the truth shall set you free!!!
2006-12-07 04:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by JINE GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were him, would you want him to tell you? It is not your place to keep these two together. Cheating is wrong for many reasons. What if she did not use protection, then you are facing the reality that she could get him very ill. Not to mention it is illegal then. You must really put your self in this other guys place, then act. I have been there and I told my bff husband that she had been cheating. It sucked but she could of gotten him real ill and if I was being cheated on then I would want to know.
2006-12-07 04:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were asked a point blank question and you lied - you should feel guilty.
There are better ways to avoid answering questions like that, such as "That's something you should ask her," or "I don't want to get involved," or "It's none of my business, please don't ask me."
Since you have lied, the only way to make it "right" is to go to the boyfriend, say you DO know, but didn't want to tell him. If he asks again, then you should decide what to say.
Whether you tell him the "truth" or not is irrelevant. If you want honesty from others, you need to give it of yourself.
2006-12-07 04:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by jbtascam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe the girlfrind doesnt want to know...maybe she really really regrets it and maybe she didnt technically "cheat". maybe her boyfriend never really asked her out or something and she was like tired of waiting, and thought, "hey im still single..i guess..." and went for it. Only to regret it later for the rest of her life. I would say dont tell him, but only if its the situation i described. If he wants to dump her, he'll do it himself, no matter what anyone says.
2006-12-07 04:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell him!!!!! he needs to know the truth,remember the ruth shall set u free. if he wants to be with her after that its on him to deal with it. No matter how much it hurts its like a bandaid u need to rip it off right away dont do it all slowly. u will doing them both a favor.If she wanted to with him she wouldnt have cheated and if still wants her well he is a greater man than me!?
2006-12-07 04:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by Louis C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah tell the truth. it is much better for him to know. wouldn't you want to know if your girlfriend was cheating? im sure you would want the truth. everyone deserves to know the truth about what is going on with their life
2006-12-07 04:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by Valerena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved. The messenger always gets the blame. talk to your friend. tell her what's happened. encourage her to come clean. It will be much better for all concerned if it comes from her.
2006-12-07 04:14:56 · answer #8 · answered by the dougal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup you should tell him. Nobody deserves to be cheated on. If they dont get along anyway they shouldn't be together.
2006-12-07 04:09:07 · answer #9 · answered by partyof10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I personally hate cheaters...so I would say tell
2006-12-07 04:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋