2006-12-07 03:58:40 · 12 answers · asked by Patti 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Um... The question doesn't really make sense, but... Oh well, just go out and pretend to be invisible (an answer fit for the question).
2006-12-07 04:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would stay in the closet. Some families just don't understand. And some do but the gay lifestyle makes them feel uncomfortable. I'll give you and example, my sister is has been gay for about 14 years. Girls would spend the night in her room, and she dressed like a male, but I never remember anyone talking about it. As I became older her long time girlfriends were just like apart of the family, but it was like never talked about in detail. I think that would be best for the first few years, just drop little hints.
Peace
2006-12-07 12:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by dcthugbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do to control how others will react to you coming out of the closet. The experience will be nervewracking enough without you putting that extra pressure on yourself. You are who you are and you should make no apologies for it. I realize they're your family but if they have issues with you being gay, those issues belong to them and them only. You should let them work through those issues on their own. Hopefully if they are angry or upset at first, they'll come around and accept you for who you are. Good luck!
2006-12-07 12:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant unless you have a completely supportive family. Even those can still be upset. I had a friend that came out to his mom, and they were very close and she bout didn't talk to him for a month, they are close again but he was worried that he had lost one of the most important people in his life. His father still wont talk to him, and his brother already knew and didn't care so that was a little bit of comfort. Just remember be careful no matter to who you come out to some just dont get it.
2006-12-07 12:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by Dove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it aint going to be the easy they probally will get mad at you but if you think that it is the right thing to do then do it and if it aint then sit and think about it... and before you go and tell them think about what you want to say so you wont say the same thing see my uncle when we came out of the closet my great aunt was like really upset about it but she got over it that was her son and she was going have to like it if she ever wanted to see him again
2006-12-07 12:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by southerenpeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a simple answer...but maybe you should do it in a way that forces them to accept it witout giving them a chance to argue or show they dissaprove. Don't make it a discussion necessarily...make it a fact and proceed with actions.
2006-12-07 12:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by Brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you cant some will get upset and other will love you for who you are. Hang on to the one that love you for who you are and give time to the ones that get upset..they still love you but they just need time
2006-12-07 12:02:37 · answer #7 · answered by Jnsp52 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure but I am sure that some will be disappointed. And may never see you the same way again. But you will never know till you tell them!!!
2006-12-07 12:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by susie w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them you fell asleep in the closet while you were searching for your old raincoat there!
2006-12-07 12:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open the door when they're not watching and sneak out.
2006-12-07 12:12:00 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋