i want to have another baby but my man doesn't what can i do to change his mind?
2006-12-07 03:56:33 · 15 answers · asked by Geana06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
a baby is not a possession to 'want'. in the ideal circumstaces u need to be able to provide a stable home and family life. find out why he doesn't want another kid, he may have valid points...
this sholud be a joint decision rather than i want so u change...
think long and hard about the financial, emotional, physical, and all the other factors before making this decision.
2006-12-07 04:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prove to him that you two can economically afford a child. Prove that you two can emotionally afford a child. Prove that his life will not change substantially due to another child.
Can't do that? Then don't have another child.
No one should be pressured or forced into having a child, man or woman.
2006-12-07 12:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and let time change his mind. Don't pull any fast ones or he might resent you and the new baby on a subconscious level.
2006-12-07 12:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want more babies? What if your marriage fails? Do you want to have so many kids tagging along as a single mom? What men would want to marry a divorcee who has so many kids? Better stay at one. If you do remarry, at least you can have another one without feeling the financial burden. I know..........I'm brutally blunt.
2006-12-08 06:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man? Isn't he a boyfriend or a husband or something. Is he just your man. If he doesn't want to then you can't change his mind.
2006-12-07 12:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be trying to change his mind. You shouldnt be having a baby if he doesnt want one. Not the right situation.
2006-12-07 12:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't do anything silly and get pregant with out him noing. because you will end up pushing him out of your life for good. have a candle light dinner and be honest with him on how you are wanting another child. tell him it would be better to have another child so the baby want be the only child..
2006-12-07 13:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by sexie1949 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus tsit down and talk with him about it and explain yourself and let him know how important it is to you. Hear his side of the story.
This is why it is so important to discuss things, such as kids, before you get married.
2006-12-07 11:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by shortnspunky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are husband and wife,you will need to reconcile.You have your and he has his reasons.Sit together,identify those reasons on either side,analyze to arrive at mutually acceptable conclusions that will lead you further forward.
Best wishes to both of you.
2006-12-07 12:56:20 · answer #9 · answered by KRMD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait.... you both must want the baby..... If you do it without his permission things can go really wrong....
2006-12-07 11:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by JohnS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋