we have been trying 4 about 2 months and nothing is working we are almost about to give up but i still have faith because i really want to have a baby and he wants it so bad but i feel like i cant have kids i really need help
2006-12-07 03:46:36 · 24 answers · asked by Ashleigh H 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
How about getting married first? If you really want kids, you two will tie the knot first. Don't say "but we love each other!" A ring proves it.
Have you seen a doctor? Also, how old are you?
While it may be frustrating, trying for 2 months is nothing. If you're willing to give up after only 2 months, I wonder why you really want this kid. My parents tried for 8 years before adopting.
Basically:
1) See a doctor.
2) Marry your boyfriend.
3) If you're under 22 years of age, rethink this kid thing. You have your whole life ahead of you.
4) Look at your lifestyle--that may be why you are having difficulty "making a baby."
2006-12-07 03:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first I'd give it another month or so just to see if anything happens. No need to jump the gun.
Next if still nothing happens, you two need to accept the possibility maybe one of you may be infertile, so I'd recommend going to either the doctor and getting a referral or going to a fertility specialist. Maybe he has a low count or could be sterile. Or perhaps you have a problem and are unable to become pregnant. Who knows, but definitely check out that possibility if nothing continues.
Don't be such a hurry sometimes women take a while to get pregnant, it's not as easy as turning on a switch.
By the way are you two going to marry before having the kid? or what? Children raised in single parent homes usually don't fair as well as those with both parents around, they are often more prone to psychological and social problems as they grow up.
Hope this has helped.
2006-12-07 03:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by Grand Master Flex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time, 2 months is not long enough to be alarmed yet. Every woman is different and it could take awhile especially if you were taking birth control before you started trying to conceive. Relax and have fun. If after about 6 months you haven't conceived go to your ob/gyn to find out what could be wrong. Good Luck :)
2006-12-07 03:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by April L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah, I think you really do need help. How old are you anyway?
If you cannot write out simple words such as "are", "to", and "for", how are you going to support and educate a child? You can't even capatalize correctly!
Maybe the fact that you aren't getting pregnant is a sign that you shouldn't be. Maybe this "boyfriend" isnt' the right person for you to have children with.
2006-12-07 03:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by ilovejolie86 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow! So you're not ready to commit to marriage, and after only 2 months you're ready to give up on having a baby? What kinda parent do you think you're going to be? You know babies aren't just cute and cuddly little dolls you get to dress up. They are little developing people who need commited parents to raise them. Find a church and build your relationship with God. Work on your relationship with your boyfriend, and stop trying to have a baby until you are married!
2006-12-07 03:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From experience I recommend that you wait until the 6th month that you tried and then go to the GYN and have them check you to see if you are fertile to have kids, ditto to your boyfriend.
Also, and this works great check out your ovulation schedule. Its a calendar that tells you what days are best to have intercourse. It shows you what days your fertile and days you are not.
Also, try doing it in the morning when your boyfriends sperm count is alot higher.
good lucK!
2006-12-07 03:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Nickname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months is too soon to be scared of infertility. On average it can take up to a year before you get pregnant. Track your ovulation, so you know when to have sex and don't stress about it. Stressing will complicate things more. Go to you ob/gyn so you can get a check up and she can put you on prenatal vitamins. check out some of these sites. They have much more info to help you out. Good Luck.
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2006-12-07 04:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by panya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, make sure both of you are relaxed, your stress level is low and stop pressuring yourselves to conceive. having a baby requires both of you to be in a relaxed mood - physically and mentally.
don't do it everyday! again, relax...
and once you've done it, don't stand up right away! rest for about 10 to 15 minutes before you stand and clean yourself. yes, gravity still does apply here! did you know that it will only take 15 minutes for you to conceive? check discovery channel, they have this documentary on how babies are conceived.
also, ask your doctor for folic acid. this supplement may help. i actually took this and royal jelly. just make sure you are not allergic to royal jelly.
take care!
2006-12-07 04:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by jinks0909 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are people suggesting fertility treatments? You've only been trying for two cycles, chill out. Don't panick until it's been at least 8 months with no luck.
2006-12-07 04:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan's Ma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun! give it time, ive been trying for just about 2 months aswell, its still to early if you dont get pregnant with a year then start worrying, but other then that just relax....I feel your pain though it is frustrating....Baby Dust to YOU!!!!
2006-12-07 03:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by R.J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋