i have known my b/f for about two months now,he seemed normal like ost guys untill two nights ago. while i was at his place for the night, i descovered a bag full of ladies underwear hidden in his wardrobe, when i questioned him about it, he said he accidently picked up someone else laundry from the laundrette, i believed him and forgot all about it as he said he was going to take it back.and last night while we were at the movies i decided to treat him to a b/j since not many ppl were about near where we were sitting, he wanted it at first then as iunzipped him, he pushed me away, i felt summit lacey he was wearing under his pants, i asked him after why, he said it was not the right place to do it. what is he up too as i have a suspicion he is into wearing ladies underwear and he probably is a wierdo, shall i leave him?
2006-12-07 03:20:55 · 12 answers · asked by alpha.female 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
leave him unless you want to wait around and find out that he's been stealing them ladies underwear from someones washing line.it will save you a lot of embaressement
2006-12-07 03:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by w.m.d's_bro 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Two months is still pretty early to divulge every little secret, but if you are already "sleeping" or having "relations" with your bf, it should be discussed, but discretely and in private.
Just because a fella has a penchant for the lacy soft stuff does not make him gay, or even bi. It just might mean he enjoys the feel or the thrill. It's a tangible fantasy.
If it doesn't bother you, or give you creeps - go along with it. Discuss perhaps, why it bothered him to let you know, and if you are accepting of it, then let him know very lovingly. If this is something you can't deal with, be gentle and end it. It's only 2 months in after all.
2006-12-07 03:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by the_wife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you musn't dare to that much in a teather, you think you're save but now the have cameras and stuff. Secondly, there's a peculiar fetish that guys have about wearing underwear, if you don't feel confortable with it then leave him, he has the right to express his sexuality.
2006-12-07 03:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lil' Gay Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just have a fetish about wearing women's underwear or clothing. If you can accept that, don't dump him. Instead, invite him to talk about it, if you can bring up the subject delicately. He is probably very embarassed about it, and that is why he responded like he did to you.
2006-12-07 04:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by slightlyunsettled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each his own I say. If he likes ladies panties, who's anyone to judge? What makes someone a "wierdo" these days? If YOU don't like it, go, cuz he's probably not gonna stop, and it's not right to try to change ppl.
2006-12-07 03:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should try to find out the truth. If wearing something different is too much for you then leave him.. but thats pretty close minded.
2006-12-07 03:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by Aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow - that would have been such a great movie... i agree with the post above - that he should share his secret with you. If you are both okay - then great, but he needs to be honest with you!
2006-12-07 03:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by BlankProfile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him
not coz he wears ladies underwear, coz he did not share his little secret with you.
and i dont wear ladies underwear .......
j/k
2006-12-07 03:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should find out the truth before u come to conclusions..... ask him politely
2006-12-07 03:31:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS NOT A JUDGMENT OF YOUR BF AT ALL. IF YOU WANT A STRAIGHT BF, YOU SHOULD END THIS ONE NOW. HIS TENDENCIES AT LEAST ARE FEMININE. IF THAT DOES NOT BOTHER YOU, DATE HIM. BUT BE PREPARED FOR WHAT HE IS TRULY INTO.
2006-12-07 03:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋