If you could change one thing about your husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend, what would you change...and why?
2006-12-07 03:19:26 · 15 answers · asked by PROUD wife of a soldier in Iraq 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Everyone I guess is taking this out of context, it is just for fun. I have been married for 12 yrs, and I LOVE my husband, we have 6 great kids, and I love my life. I will give you my answer......
When we got together, I slept with the tv on, and he could not stand it, so I started sleeping with it off...but he always woke up in the middle of the night to watch sport center with NO VOLUME, he was being respectful to me, but I HATED IT, it was easier if he would turn the volume up, then I could sleep. After 12 years of marriage, this is STILL an issue.
BUT.....I would give anything to be able to argue with him over this tonight, but he is Iraq, and I am here.....still sleeping with the tv off, and a pillow in his place. : (
2006-12-07 03:39:10 · update #1
I wish he wasn't so sloppy.......I feel like I am always cleaning up/picking up after him.
Otherwise, I love that man like CRAZY!!!!
2006-12-07 03:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would change nothing about my husband. I love him for who he is, and we trust, love and respect one another. I am also the proud wife of a soldier serving in Iraq. I know that your hubby will come home safe, just as mine will. Never give up, and best of luck to you.
It is funny the things that you miss when a spouse is gone. I really miss my husbands snoring. It is hard for me to sleep without it. I also sleep with a lot of pillows, but I now have to have the TV on. I still would not change anything about him because he is a wonderful man.
My husband calls me about every ten days. After he calls, I have to turn the phone off because I do not want to get a sad phone call...i keep up hope.
2006-12-07 11:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by Nut 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My prayers go out to you that your hubby not only stay safe but soon return home to his wonderful family
As for my wish, my fiance Is a great guy but he has a problem standing up to his ex wife not only does she use their children as leverage to get more money other than what child support pays(which the children never see) she also fills the kids minds with rediculous things about my fiance and I to make herself look better. I understand when the children get older they will be able to see everything for themselves but the ex has other children by other men that she wouldn't think twice to say what she says and calls my fiance to his face
Oh by the way I have confronted his ex about her mouth and she only denies everything the children brings to my fiance and I and she has so much respect for me and etc. etc. when she talks to my fiance she can't control her anger blah blah blah then I hear from the kids that they were In trouble for telling on her. Its a circle I'll live probally for the rest of my life it just seems If he would've stopped her mouth a long time ago we would be In a bit better situation than we are now.
2006-12-07 12:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by passion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife is too much practicing religious rituals, which at times looks like she is neglecting the need to keep the conjugal life as important as that of religion. She is a modern person too at the same time who is fairly well educated. I would wish her to be living in this world more than her attempt to win God's favour.
Anyway, I am happy that she is very intelligent and could take care of our family's need like preparing food keeping the rooms tidy and looking after all the needs of our daughters at a great pain to her comfort.
2006-12-08 01:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by Hafiz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't change anything about who he was when we got married... Now I would change about everything to the point that it would be easier to say I'd change the person... Which I am thinking about doing...
2006-12-07 11:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Butterfly ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, some would probably say the snoring, but I love it when my hubby snores (can't sleep without hearing him snoring)lol, let's see the one thing I would change, if I could. I would want to change his eating habits, he has high blood pressure, and I want to do something to keep him around for a long time. :)
2006-12-07 12:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by Heartful_poet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would change the time we waisted, when we could have been together.
My husband also works out of the country.
There is nothing about him that i would change.
I've learned to except and love him for what and who he is.
By trying to change him your just going to make yourself upset.
The thing i love most about my husband is the fact that he loves me for who and what i am. He doesn't try to change me, but just enjoys me.
I think you'll put alot of unwanted pressure on your marriage if you try to change him.
I'd hate it and wouldn't feel very loved if my husband was trying to change me.
2006-12-07 11:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by Louw D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The fact that my wife is seeing another man.
2006-12-07 11:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by Johnboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would change the clumsiness of my wife
and also the sensitivity to everything (she gets sick for anything)
and the sex drive.
2006-12-07 11:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a thing.If I changed him then he wouldn't be himself anymore. I love him just the way he is 'faults' and all.
2006-12-07 11:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋