2006-12-07 03:17:23 · 13 answers · asked by cubana 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Depends on why he is lying. I would ask him....really its not making looking good. Guys who hide things from their familys are probably hiding something from you....Is he allowed to date yet?? I would proceed with caution and be honest with him that you dont approve of lying......and he needs to be honest. If there is no honesty there is no trust and with no trust there is no relationship
GOOD LUCK
2006-12-07 03:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would concern me greatly. Why does he not want people to know where he is? Here's my concern for you--if he doesn't want people to know where he is, what is he planning on doing? I woudl worry about you getting into a situation with him that you might not be able to get out of.
On the other hand, I have a teenage son. If he lied to us about where he was when with a girlfriend, I would not trust him and would not allow him freedom.
Someone who is lying is narcissistic and self centered and it is not safe for you to trust this person. Do not allow him to manipulate you by justifying his lies.
Stay safe.
Now, if you do not believe that your safety is a concern, think about this----stick with your own values. If you hang around trouble, it follows you and you'll be bound to get into trouble eventually from his lying.
Good luck.
2006-12-07 06:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by coverotherollingstone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not worthy it. What is it, he's ashamed of you? is he married? If you are not good enough for his family then he's not worth your time. You want a man that will show you off to the world and be proud to have you by his side.
2006-12-07 03:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Hollywood Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is being denied love (by Satan) in his family, he is under a burden to be perfect. He is probably very angry about this. What I would avoid is being the recipient of that anger. What else is he going to do with it? Do you think it is worth it?
2006-12-07 03:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by lightellen3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i think its wrong.
unless he can tell the truth to his family about you.
its not doing either one of you good
i just got out of a relationship like this
my bf had to lie to his parents when he was with me
all because his parents hated my parents
and got grounded whenever he got found it
its not good for the realtionship
and soon guilt may come on you
that your helping your boyfriend lie.
unless your madly in love with this guy. the best thing to do is
talk 2 him, tell him your not comfortable with it
and leave. its hard, but making him do that,
or letting him do that isnt right, for you or him.
2006-12-07 09:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person who lies about one thing, lies about many. Now you need to wonder what lies you have been told. It's a never ending cycle and leads nowhere. I'd confront him about his lying and explain you are not looking for that in a partner. If he can't or won't stop, I'd end it.
2006-12-07 03:20:06 · answer #6 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He shouldn't lie but it would make me wonder what has he lied to you about. If he can lie to family he can easily lie to you. Is he ashamed of what you guys are doing while you are out.
2006-12-07 07:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by chiefs fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not an encouraging sign. If he's lying to them he is probably prepared to lie to you too. Ask him why he feels the need to lie about it. He might have a good reason.....can't think what off hand but he might.
2006-12-07 03:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, I prefer my guy to be honest with his family. I think our relationship would probably be shortlived if he was not honest. If he is not honest about me, then it would make me feel like he is trying to hide me by not genuinely admitting that he is with me.
2006-12-11 01:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by spyder90tishuez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it is wrong and that his intentions might be different. i wouldnt be too trusting. and if he lies about one thing then he will lie about other things. and lie to you so be careful
2006-12-07 03:38:33 · answer #10 · answered by Daisy Carlos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋