am 5 payments behind on my home and plan on suicide new years eve,what is least painful way to do it?

Answer 1

Why would you want to give the mortgage people the satisfaction of seeing you dead? They'll just collect on your mortgage insurance. They win. You lose and they dance on your grave! Being poor isn't all that bad (Been there, done that). Have you considered filing bankruptcy? Often you get to keep your home and some of your belongings if you file bankruptcy and there are attorneys who will help you for little or no cost. If you're concerned about the old-fashioned stigma of bankruptcy, you might consider the real stigma attached to suicide. Remember that some of the largest companies in the U.S.A. have filed bankruptcy and survived.

Committing suicide just lets the people who are harassing you win and you lose! Get mad! Get moving! The road always looks darkest before dawn. Committing suicide is for cowards!
Learn to give ulcers instead of getting them. Learn to say no! Take back your cup! (I don't know whether you are male or female). When you give and give and give and then give away your cup, you have nothing left to refill. It's symbology! Go to your cupboard. Take out a cup. Put it in front of you and then think about filling it with every act of kindness or every good thing that has ever happened to you, no matter how small it may have seemed.

Take a piece of paper and write down every problem you have that is blocking your success. Either ask someone else for possible solutions or think of them on your own but write the solutions in a column next to the problem. Pick the best one and JUST DO IT! Reminder--the best solution is NOT SUICIDE!!!!!

We'll pray for you. We'll help you. Get some guts and let's get some real solutions by New Year's Eve.

Do you go to church? Why not confide in your pastor or priest and get some help?

Tough people go over, under, around or through---they do not commit suicide!

Answer 2

I hope to God that you're joking. Material things are not worth it. Just sell the stupid house and get back on your feet again. You can always buy another (even better) one when you've got your life together. Have you considered that you maybe clinically depressed? There are harmless pills that even a pregnant woman can take that will make your heart ache less as you sort out your hardships. We all have problems, but if you're thinking about killing yourself that is a sign that you may need to relive your heart of it's aching first so that you can think clearly.
There is NO financial situation that can't be remedied with a proper financial plan. See if a financial advisor or accountant will take your case for free. I can think of a dozen people whom I know that would help someone who needs financial planning without charging them. Get your heartache fixed by seeing a doctor and telling him you need an antidepressant, then get your finances into a plan that will be workable. Bankrupcy is an option and if you've already done that and can't do it again, there ARE plans to help ANY money mess you can possibly have. GET those two things straight before you devistate everyone you've ever cared about. Suicide is such a coward's way out. You have it in you to fix things, you just need a road map from a financial advisor and you need a clear head and heart from a doctor. Please don't cheat yourself out of your future. It may be very bad, but you're seeing it as hopeless and THAT's the problem, not anything else b/c everything else IS FIXABLE!!!!
Peace be with you and I hope you get the "pain fog" you're under lifted by seeing a doctor. That's the first step toward a solution.

Answer 3

Suicide is selfish. Think of all the grieving your loved ones will have to go through. You can loose a house, but loosing your life is something that you can not obtain again.

Call your morgage company! Be honest with them. Work out a form of a payment. Then perhaps schedule yourself for a doctors appointment. Perhaps you are going through these emotions for another reason that the world of medicine could help with.

Answer 4

Call the mortgage company and work out a plan with them. You'll be surprised at how much help they can be. Committing suicide is the cowards way out. Do something about your debt besides giving it to someone else. There are people that love you and will miss you but because of one selfish act they will never forgive you. You owe it to them to work things out and get your life back in order. I have been there and never considered taking the easy way out.

Answer 5

Suicide!! No offense but YOU ARE A COWARD!!!!!!!!!!!

You are not the first or the last to loose a home, get over it atleast you have apparently good Health look around there is other peolpe who would Kill to stay alive fighting terrible and painfull diseases, and dont give up...... Think about that, drive your self to Childrens Hospital and look at those kids that are fighting for their lives.......

Answer 6

That has occurred to me beforehand. i'm an quite shy guy or woman and that i'm universal for my quietness. inspite of the incontrovertible fact that i are not getting bullied, it feels like i'm invisible to human beings, and that i'm taken care of in yet in a distinctive way than the rest. I additionally trusted video games and electronics to pass the time and save me occupied. What you have is social stress affliction. i could propose seeing a psychologist approximately this as a replace of killing your self, yet once you haven't any longer have been given the different concepts, i'm no longer struggling with you. yet undergo in concepts this, you have as many concepts as you provide your self, meaning in case you prefer to conquer this, you're able to desire to do it your self, and pass your guy or woman way, and don't pay attention to anybody yet your self because of the fact in case you suspect you have the potential to talk to human beings and to no longer be terrified of being judged, your existence will stay up greater on your expectancies. I desire you sturdy success.. oh this substitute into published 2 years in the past. Oh properly. :)

Answer 7

the thing to do is not kill yourself. that is a very selfish way out. what of all the people who care about you. you are thinking of hurting everyone else while you take the easy way out. life sucks. you may have to lose your house, but wouldn't that be easier than hurting and making everyone around you live without you. have you tried getting down on your knees and thanking God for what you do have and praying for help? you may not be able to keep your house, but you also won't be a big selfish jerk. i'll say some prayers for you, and i wish you peace and help. as soon as you can, call a hotline for help. PLEASE.

Answer 8

Get some help. Call a debt consolidator. Talk to a counselor. Ending your life is not the way to solve this.

Answer 9

Listen to Yoko Ono records at high volume

Answer 10

Jesus can help you! Read the book of John and Ephesians. I'll be praying for you. If you need to talk just e-mail me.