2006-12-07 02:57:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I would not worry or be concerned about labels like GAY. I would (and I HAVE) just done what I desired and what seemed to be natural to me. :)
2006-12-07 04:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by Sue_Desdemona 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are SEXUALLY attracted to someone of the same sex exclusively, yes. Whether or not you have acted on it is irrelevant.
If you are attracted to the Opposite sex you are heterosexual, regardless as to whether or not you have acted on it.
By the standards some in here seem to try to put forth, a person has no orientation until they actually have sex and that simply isn't true.
2006-12-07 03:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
In the manner that if you think of killing someone you aren't a murderer... if you think of sexual contact with someone of the same sex, you aren't gay. However, if it's a regular occurence vs a random attraction... you might want to really think about how you would feel about being n a relationship with someone of the same sex. It's not just about the physical.... it's also about the emotional.
2006-12-07 03:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by witchylust 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it depends on the degree of attraction. Do you just think they are pretty? Do you want to have a relationship with them, etc. If you dont feel the same toward the opposite sex then maybe you are.
2006-12-07 03:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by Bistro 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not necessarily. Most people have an occasional "attraction" to the same sex but ignore it, some act on it. doesn't mean your gay.
2006-12-07 03:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. If one is sexually attracted exclusively to his or her own gender, but doesn't act on it or let anyone know, that person could be considered a "closeted" homosexual. Prior to coming out to others, the person may or may not think of him or herself as gay.
2006-12-07 03:37:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HOPE NOT oh wait what about if your attracted to the same sex but you have only kissed someone of the same sex and only to get guys at a party turned on!....I dont think being attracted to the same sex would make you gay tho b/c then girls wouldnt be able to say that other girls are pretty!! besides......... gay mean happy lol
2006-12-07 03:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by Olivia B 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I am heterosexual so no expert but from conversations with gay people I believe some always knew others find out later in life.
Why don`t you just try it to find out, my motto is "do not regret the things you have done but the ones you did`nt".
2006-12-07 03:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by Queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would assume so, because people who are attracted to those of the opposite sex and "don't act on it" are considered "straight."
2006-12-07 02:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by moobaby09 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think sexual attraction to the same sex is enough for you to be classified as "gay". Most heterosexual people find thinking about the same sex disgusting.
2006-12-07 03:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋