i masturbates too much it became my habit even addiction and then in the beginning its guilty behaviour that i am doing some thing wrong i dont deserve this thing and then dont talk to people because of this and then became shy and too much introvert even i cant talk with my boy freinds and i cant tell them too whats going on with me they all see me as dumb seriously i dont know what to do can any one help me.
2006-12-07 02:18:08 · 10 answers · asked by maji 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sweetie ,am rather shy to say this but i will to help .Am also a victim of such stuff(feeling guilty for masturbating).And a physician said that there was nothing wrong with masturbating but when it makes you feel guilty real bad .Then it's not a good thing at such point you should stop cos it could affect your state of mind .And when it becomes sth you do everywhere then it's bad .Since it makes you feel bad ,why not put a halt to it and try to face sth else that you feel good doing .With time you'll be able to come to terms with why you felt the way you felt while doing it and gradually you'll be able to flow freely with your friends .It won't be easy cos during ur process of trying to quit you'll be engaging in it but not as before and not having much fun as before so with that feeling ,you'll be able to stop .I was able to get through that and not needing anybody to help me masturbate or trying to get a sex partner .Just believe in yourself that you can get through this and believe me sweetie you will .Just don't give up .Staying in that "world" will only get you sadness.Once you start doing it less than before you'll see how happy you'll become,how free you'll be.Trust me this won't be easy but if you really want to prevent that feeling of guilt and to get the freedom you want then you got to hang on.I'll tell you for one that i was able to scale through so will you.You can e-mail me if you still need help on it,i'll be there if you need me.Cheer up.
2006-12-07 18:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're your friends, they probably won't really care. Funny thing is, they probably do the same thing, so it should be anything big. Yeah, if you want, you can try to stop or slow it down, but it's not anything bad. You're not raping, molesting, or hurting anybody by doing it, so it's ok. Until it turns into something that will harm people, I say do whatever helps you calm your nerves, and if masturbating is your way of releasing some emotions, I say go for it. Honestly though, your friends shoudn't really make a big deal out of it if they're your friends. They'll be by you no matter what.
2006-12-07 02:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you male or female (you said boyfriends) .... However, it really doesn't matter same answer for both genders. First there is nothing wrong with masturbation, it's yours play with it if you want to. That is no reason to feel guilty, you should also talk to a doctor (Shrink) to find out why you think it is wrong. Also try to find a Lover so it won't be necessary to masturbate so often. All masturbation does is release the sexual pressure and there is nothing wrong with that.
2006-12-07 02:29:10 · answer #3 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masterbation is ok maybe you could find a partner who likes to masterbate you. I am a girl with a girlfriend and she knows how to touch me in the right spot, she knows what i like. I have been masterbating since I was 10. No one can make me feel as good as me. But like I said try findin someone whon likes what you like.
2006-12-07 02:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
masturbation is a strong dirty habbit that none of us here can help you with, however, there is someone I now that can help you overcome it permanently. He name is Jesus Christ. go to Him right where you are and saying the following words in your heart slowly and mean it, 'Lord Jesus, I am a sinner, have mercy on me, come into my life and cleanse me from my sin and filth. Make me a new creature, I surrender my life to you, deliver me from any and every wrong habbit in Jesus anme. Amen." if you prayed and meant that prayer Jesus has already delivered you, look for good friends that would build you up in your new faith i.e christain friends. cling to Jesus and you would never go back to masturbation but if you go far away from him that habbit might seize you again. God siad in His word (the bible) come near to Me and I would come near to you. cheers.
2006-12-07 02:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why feel so quilty about it. You are in your own private time. Whats this have to do with the outside world?
Hey its better you plaese yourself than just sleep around if you don't have that special someone in your life yet.
2006-12-07 02:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you are doing is human and natural, people do not have to know what you are doing in your private life nor do they even speculate. people and the church have told you that it is wrong
start slow and build you confidences with people
2006-12-07 05:39:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with maturbation, & its nothing to be ashamed of, but if its causing you to distance yourself then perhaps you need to be on the search 4 a lover!!!
2006-12-07 02:23:58 · answer #8 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be u shud see ur doctor and what i suggest dat u shud get merried as ur sexual desires are not fullfilled but dont forget 2 see ur doctor
2006-12-07 02:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by dia a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
put jalapeno juice on your hands and fingers, you wont touch yerself fer a while.
2006-12-07 02:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋