2006-12-07 01:49:04 · 36 answers · asked by bestofintent 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Physical assault. It was not the physical pain and injury that hurt me the most, it was the fact that a man who I loved could and would do this...it makes you feel raped of your soul, mistrusting in your thoughts, emotionally damaged, and physically altered. I have since recovered 100% because it was a long time ago. It took me much longer to heal the internal wounds of my soul than it did of my body. Praise God, I have recovered my soul. I have learned even to forgive this man, he was sick and he was under the control of Satan. I pray each day that he is living for God and a new man in Christ.
2006-12-07 01:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by Shayna 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Have just read all the answers before mine. They certainly put my life in perspective!
I have had some pretty sh***y things done to me, but truthfully, what has hurt me the most over the years is when someone has accused me of lying when I have absolutely been telling the truth.
It is as if they are crushing me mentally and physically if they think I could lie like that to them.
To all of you who have been so badly hurt; here is wishing you, peace , love and healing.
2006-12-07 02:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by Christine H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While after a serious accident the person changed all legal documentation to show he was the owner of everything, all my money was taken out of my account and into his.
When I got well enough to realize what was going on it was to late. He had control of everything....
This is by far the most hurtful thing anyone has ever done to me!!
2006-12-07 01:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most hurtful..that changed my life forever...
That I can't change...that I think of each day...that I should GET OVER...
My mother signed me over to the Social Worker at the Hospital and did not even know if I was a boy or girl and said she did not want to know.
Good news from this was my biological father found out about all this from her doctor. (his good friend) dad talked to his wife and they wanted me in their family. What a great wife!!
Dad paid the doctor and lawyer and even had my birth certificate altered to his wife's name...I loved my adoptive mom Lois she was wonderful she had a short life and suffered terribly at the end I think of her as MOM...her red lipstick is seared into my memory...I still remember her perfume...oops getting off track..
Love your mom and dad no matter what.. It feels good during the Holidays...and yes I send my real mom cards and keep in touch,( met her when I was 19) though I never see her now, I feel sad for her ...take care
2006-12-07 02:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by Tabor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was 19 years old I was in love to a man 10 years older, who has been working in England, I live in a small country in Central America, third world country, and this young man told that I would not marry me, even if he loved me because he needed to marry a women that is rich and who belonged to family with power, because he needed to go up in the social and political life in my country, and I was poor and from a humble family. That was really sad, and change my life for ever, because I change my mind and became hard and even cruel with other people That did not deserve that behavior, but hopefullymy life continue ion a good way and I was and I am happy with my life now. 35 years after, but I always remember that sad moment.
2006-12-07 01:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by pelancha 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They drove their funeral limo in front of my bicycle causing me to go over the handlebars, bounce off the car then bounce off the road on the other side. The injuries were pretty hurtful, as was the two police who came to my home a few weeks later to persuade me the driver/owner of the funeral parlour was "such a nice man" that I should drop the charges against him!
I refused.
2006-12-07 01:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Robin♥ (Scot,UK) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When ALL my friends decided to fall out with me all at once when i was 13. I had no one to hang around with in school it was the worst time of my life. My brother fancied them so he decided to take their side. I had done absolutely nothing wrong. They wrote me a letter and all signed it, it basically said how ugly and pathetic i was etc. If i could go back to then i would kick them all in the face. But now when i hear what they are all doing with themselves, i have definitely won the war.
2006-12-07 01:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by ~Natacha~ 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
several years ago my best friend slept with my girlfriend for a month before I found out. Shortly after that he was with a group of friends (sadly I wasn't there) He decided to leapfrog a carpet sweeper. The handle of the sweeper went through his jeans and straight up his rectum, rupturing his spleen! He had to wear a colostomy bag for 6 months. I defintitely believe in karma!!
2006-12-07 02:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by jel123 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some really bad things have happened to people! I feel sorry for myself sometimes as I was bullied at School as a child and then found out what a "friend" thought of me all along! 'Im with Natacha on this one!
My lifes actually quite good I think, nothing really bad has happened to me and I'm grateful!
2006-12-07 01:59:28 · answer #9 · answered by ehc11 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have an ex-spouse out of a short disaster of a marriage that is violent, abusive, controlling, manipulative -- in other words -- he IS a sociopathic personality that REFUSES to acknowledge that he has problems and mental illness, and he will NOT and REFUSES to obtain treatment for his mental illness.
So during that short disaster of a marriage, and then (much worse) during the divorce process and for the last over 13 years AFTER the divorce was finalized, he has continued to stalk me, burglarize my home/office/car, disappear for irregular times, damaged/destroyed my home/cars, stolen vehicles from me, stolen my identity, etc ---
This August 2006, he again reappeared ... and this time ... he re-re-re-(to the nth degree) BURGLARIZED my HOME once again -- this time, he got one of my Adult Children to WILLINGLY HELP with the Burglary of my Home -- and yes, he DID BURGLARIZE my home -- but was NOT satisfied with the 1st full load of things he stole ... he left direct evidence it was HIM (and the adult child), and this evidence included what he did to say "I am NOT done with you yet, I'm coming back for ANOTHER load of YOUR property (think of the nasty stuff other people say here -- that is the way he thinks of me)".
IT is an EXTREME and TOTAL BETRAYAL of everything I taught my children, and HOW I TAUGHT Them to live (by SHOWING them that there is a BETTER WAY To live) -- I SHOW by EXAMPLE that HARD WORK is the way to EARN what you want -- NOT to open up another's HOME and BURGLARIZE it.
2006-12-07 02:16:24 · answer #10 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋