he doesn't invite you to family events, he doesn't take you out where any of his friends can see you with him, he sees the wife weekly because of the kids and sometimes has her over for dinner ( even though the wife refuses to sleep with him) and he hasn't filed for divorce after more than a year?
2006-12-07 01:47:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not enough or "bad" sex is never the reason. Continue to fool yourself.
2006-12-07 01:51:59 · update #1
For some women, I think they are lonely and want at least some kind of attention, the foolish ones think he will change. In most cases, although the guy may very well care for the mistress, he wants his family back. After awhile they will probably break up because the stress will be too much. If he does move on and remarry, he will be more than likely to choose someone who had no connection to the break up of his marriage.
2006-12-07 02:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by schuby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are STUPID and lack self esteem!
What self respecting woman would put up with that crap? They think they are somehow "winning" against the wife.....hell NO! The husband is exactly where he WANTS to be- with his WIFE! He only says BS to get free sex on the side instead of paying a prostitute!
And NO, I am not married, but I don't have to be...this isn't rocket science.....
2006-12-07 01:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am curious myself.
The Other Woman is a total loser.
She will always be second best because most (80%) of married men return to their wives.
Most of these homewreckers also live in a fantasy world and think that they can "win" these men away from their wives.
I am also recovering from the Other Woman, BUFFY, and still am so darn curous as to how she could stoop so low and destroy our family even when she was asked by her own Husband to stay away from my family..
Now she has lost everything.
She is Divorced.
A single Mom.
And she thinks life is so unfair and hard.
I think it is funny, the hag got what was coming to her and none of it from me.
2006-12-07 01:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by thewife 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Interesting. I do invite my girlfriends to family functions. Last time, she invited me and my wife to an event that her and her spouse were going to.
Funny, I think my wife got along better with her spouse than I did with her.
2006-12-07 01:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
after a year of this the mistress really needs to move on
2006-12-07 01:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by kaitnkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always a challenge to the other woman to pursue an unavailable man, and when he's free she doesn't want him.
2006-12-07 01:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by stella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He buys good presents!
2006-12-07 01:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋