well we have been having a 3some with this guy for about 10 yrs now.just so it does not just messed up those are to straigth 8 guys.no i dont love this other guy like i do my husband.need help
2006-12-07 01:38:23 · 14 answers · asked by m.green1973 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A marriage should be only for two and is like "karma",
"what goes around comes around" be careful its not healthy either.
2006-12-07 01:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by babylove 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you talk about morals, and society, it's wrong. But I'm here for you, so... How do you feel? Does it make your relationship more exciting? And more special, because what you two does is different from other couples? If you answer yes to all of this, then it's ok. Many couples do things that others don't do to house a special bond that dismisses outside forces; and so, this may just be your special bond.
2006-12-07 01:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by DN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
It's important that you and your husband have a very open and honest relationship. Emotions kept inside can be much more complex when others are involved. Some of the same tools used in polyamory would be good here, even though you aren't talking about a romantic relationship.
2006-12-07 02:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not incorrect to experience satisfied. to assert that is incorrect is the manifestation of a selfish ideas. One desires to interchange the selfish ideas with a ideas it truly is earnest to assist others. An act to make yet another satisfied conjures up the different to make nonetheless yet another satisfied, and so happiness is born from such an act. Thousand of candles must be lighted from a unmarried candle and the existence of the candle is actual not shortened. Happiness by no skill decreases with techniques from sharing. Be a rainbow in someone's' cloud.
2016-11-30 06:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by youngerman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong in a marriage if both of you are agree.Having 3 somes is a commun thing now a days, if you enjoy that and he also too, there is not a reason to worry about, it seems you have a very strong and truthful relation and that is what matters.
2006-12-07 01:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by lovetoyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your husband are ok with this part of your life, than what is you problem? You don't need help. I say you are one of the few people who know what she wants out of life and is happy.
2006-12-07 05:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by Fuzzy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not if you look at all like your Avatar, :) Seriously though give additional details, are you saying you want to stop the somes?
2006-12-07 01:43:45 · answer #7 · answered by finished 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your having a good time i just wish my husband would be open to the idea.
2006-12-07 01:56:45 · answer #8 · answered by kim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What I can't figure out is, if SO many people, by just reading these boards, FREAK OUT over the thought of someone cheating, yet have no problem SHARING their spouse with someone else and have no problem watching them get it on with someone else....
And to the idiot poster who said basically, "you are married so anything goes".....HARDLY!!! YOU'RE MARRIED NOW!!!! NO MORE OUTSIDERS! Geez, what the hell did you get married for???????? Its suddenly "OK" to invite someone into your bedroom "as long as both of you think its ok" to USE for your pleasure only????/ WTF is wrong with THAT senario???
No, I am not married...don't choose to be....but if marriage is all about having to share the one person you love with someone else....You married people can keep it----no thanks!
2006-12-07 01:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Whatever floats your boat, as long as there are no children involved and no one gets hurt....Morally you will have to answer to God, and thats between you and Him
2006-12-07 01:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋