i lost my baby well it died in me and i have a boyfriend i been with for 6-7 months and we had a talk about babys and if i ever had one or something that he would want to kill it cause his to young to have a kid... So i haven't told him yet but he haasn't been home for 6 1/2 dayz now so what should i do
2006-12-07 01:12:00 · 16 answers · asked by ManImSadINeedAHug 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
not to smart of you to be with him. I mean you can't blame him for not wanting children and being all about abortion. But at the same time you should have let him know that you disagree and this is one of the issues that should have made you two think well maybe we are too different to be together, especially if we are going to be having sex. So basically I'm saying its both your fault and his fault for continuing a relationship that has no chance of working. Have the baby if you want it, move and don't be surprised if he does something terrible if you ask for child support.
2006-12-07 01:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by tsumavoc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a cruel thing for him to say. You should tell him what happened and how it made you feel. If he is mean and says he is glad, find someone better. Since he hasn't been home almost a week, I would dump him. You need someone who will be there threw the tough times and support you 100% on whatever you want to do, regardless if you got pregnant and wanted to keep the baby. If you don't want to get preg, i suggest a birthcontrol pill. If it is hard to remember you can do a shot every 6 months, and hey you might not even have a period! Goodluck with everything, and if you need support....you can e-mail me Angel69615@yahoo.com
2006-12-07 11:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANYONE that would even say something about killing an innocent little baby has problems.Get a real man in your life.
2006-12-07 09:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you say you havent told him do you mean ur pregnant again? if so ,i say break up with him because you obviously dont want the same things out of life and get a restraining order on him so he doesnt hurt you. if you mean you havent told him you lost the baby i say dont tell him that because he will probably dance for joy and that might hurt your feelings.
2006-12-07 09:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simple with just 2 choices:
a) If you love him, then keep the baby away until he is ready!
b) If you want a baby, then dump him!
But, remember to choose wisely because this is YOUR LIFE!
2006-12-07 10:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by hswee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should pack your stuff and leave as soon as possible, now while he is gone. Anyone who wouild kill a baby is violent and unstable and you should get yourself away from him while you still can.
2006-12-07 09:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by gapeachinsc75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin, if he dont want the responibility of a child, dont let him get the baby makin practise in either.
2006-12-07 09:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by mummyjo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But you are not pregnant anymore, you said the baby passed away inside of you. What do you mean - "what should I do?" Your question is confusing.
2006-12-07 10:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stay with him. I mean he only beats you and will want to kill your unborn child because he loves you right?
2006-12-07 10:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by notsopresident 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobodys place to tell you what to do. but if it were me id leave him and find some one who wants to have kids
2006-12-07 10:29:54 · answer #10 · answered by impala400sb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋