can u trust someone who cheated on u?

Question

can u retrust someone who cheated on u cuz they claimed u pushed them away and u hurt them really badly, also then they come back and tell u they dont love u anymore like they used to, should leave or stay in that marriage

Answer 1

Once they cheated, the trust was lost. You should leave and find the person who loves you for you and only you. And doesn't want anybody but you.

Answer 2

i would say I think you should stay I believe people do and say things when they are upset to get at the second half maybe a way of trying to see were you stand and how much you really want to be with them the old saying is not true (once a cheater always a cheater) some people do things to get attention and that is bad if they have to go and be with someone else but it is sometimes a part of life. Saying I dont love you anymore is just a coverup for what they are doing or did thats basically out of anger so you can look over that now if it get worse you guys should try a counselor divorce should be the last result.

Answer 3

If someone tells you that they don't love you anymore like they use to why do you need to ask this the question of stay or leave? The least of your problem is asking can you trust them. You should be more concerned about the fact that they're telling you that they don't love you and they can't seem to accept the fact that they did wrong however it's easier for them to place all the blame on the other person. Leave! How much more abuse are you willing to deal with? How much more unhappiness are you willing to endure? When do you feel you've had enough?

Answer 4

im going thru that now with my wife she has cheated on me the whole time since we met and had the nerve to tell me she loves me even thou she is living with another man,and the bad thing is she asked me to marry her i was dumb enough to accept.i thought i could change her into a family person i cant people have to want to change for the good.my wife has done everything u can imagine to me and i still love her.i'm going to move on and pick up the pieces and try to put myself back together i filing for a divorce after the first of the year i cant stay married to someone like this anymore u should do the same.people like yours and mine take us for granite.get out hopefully the pain will go away in time.good luck.

Answer 5

Do what fits u. Honestly, trust that has always been broken is like a glass that has been shattered. To put the broken pieces back takes a lot of hard work and pain. If you think it is worth doing it, go on. If not, just move on my dear......

Answer 6

You should stay in the marriage because it's "until death," but you don't have to trust the person. Anyone who blames his cheating on his spouse is not taking personal responsibility and is likely to do it again. Also, I think that being told, "I don't love you like I used to" is a huge, flashing neon sign that he's not taking your marriage seriously.

Answer 7

If you have to ask, then no. If you truely trusted the person, you wouldn't need to ask, because you would already FEEL it. Move on. Quick. You will only put yourself through more suffering for no reason. Put your time and energies into finding a person that loves you.

Answer 8

That is a tough question. If they have done it once then there is a chance, and I would say a big one, that they will do it again. This is not to say that they never will again what I mean is that you have to make them earn back your trust. Cheers

Answer 9

No and stay in the marriage only if there r young children and if ur not arguing all the time

Answer 10

well you can forgive some one but you never forget, so you will always have that thought in the back of your mind. it would take a lot to keep you together but you may never trust...