my ex and i were together for 4 years and had unprotected sex trying to concieve and had no luck. i just got with my boyfirend for like 3 months now and im 7 weeks. chances of a miscarrige? is it normal to think miscarrige?
2006-12-07 00:31:12 · 9 answers · asked by somebodysmamasoon 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
There is no more risk for any miscarriage or defect than in any other situation.
If you really worry, go and see your doctor.
The other question might be very simple. Maybe your ex couldn’t have any babies, and changing the partner exposed this fact.
And please, forget anybody who wants to implant bad conscience in you!!! Enjoy the situation!
2006-12-07 00:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by saehli 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What were your pre-ovulation temps? 98.0 doesn't mean a whole lot by itself, it matters that it is higher than pre-O temps and they stay high untill your period is due. Temps throughout the day mean nothing as far as fertility goes. Progesterone peaks about mid-way through your luteal phase (about where you are now), so your temps should be high. What you're looking for is temps that stay higher than your pre-o temps for 16 days after ovulation, then you have a good indication of pregnancy. You may even find that your temps take a second rise at this point (a triphasic chart), this is very common in pregnancy--I had this happen the month I got pregnant. It's still early to test, I'd say the 8th would be a safe bet. Good luck!
2016-05-23 03:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was the other man who was impotent. Maybe God knew something that you didn't. Yes everyone who has been trying thinks miscarriage. Being pregnant after only three months might be difficult because you guys hardly know each other. Having a miscarriage, while it does happen to alot of women, is not as common as you might think. Make an appointment, take your prenatals, rest and think positive. Good luck on everything.
2006-12-07 00:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by 1973kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for a newly pregnant women to worry about miscarriage. Unfortunately, it happens and no matter what we try to do to prevent it we cannot.. Statistics are that out of every 4 pregnancy's 1 will end in miscarriage. I have been pregnant 10 times and have had 5 miscarriages and I have four wonderful kids now and I am pregnant wiTh my fifth and I am in my 4th month. If miscarriage is going to happen it will happen before you get into the 3rd month and once you hear the heart beat and get into the 3rd month your chances of miscarriage drops significantly. Your not the only one who worries about it , everyone of us get scared and worry while we are pregnant. Once you hit your 3rd month you'll worry about something else. Its normal and all part of being a mommy. Congratulations on your wonderful news.
2006-12-07 00:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by ws_422 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your ex ever go to a fertility doctor to examine his sperm count? It was probably too low to inseminate you. Your new boyfriend probably has normal sperm count.
The chance of miscarriage is still there. It will lessen as the months progress.
It's perfectly normal to think miscarriage because it was probably brewing at the back of your mind for 4 years while you were trying to concieve. Let the thought go.
My only concern is, you've known your new bf for 3 months and you're now very likely to have his child... do you really know this man well enough to be bound to him for at least 18 years of your life?
2006-12-07 00:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by Alex B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
mabe. 4 years is a long time and i have the same problem you had. im going for my fifth year i dream allot about having a baby and even taking care of one. conccieving one is simply not my luck. most times i dream about miscarrige i think it's normal for a mother to be. to think about it allot. you have been waiting for so long for a baby. you want to protect the baby and now that you are pregnant there will be silly thoughts. my sister is pregnant she is only 17 years old. she feels so frighned when her baby does'nt move or kick. it's normal remember the baby also sleeps inside you. So i will say it's normal. just pray to God. i will pray for you 2. good luck.
2006-12-07 00:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister and her husband tried for years, they even went to a fertility Dr. did the ovulation test, Nothing. After they broke up he got his girlfriend pregnant withing a couple months and they had a healthy little girl. Then my sister got pregnant by a boyfriend and had a healthy set of twins. Sometimes these things happen. Don't stress yourself about miscarrying if it really bothers you talk to your Dr. Congrats, may you have a healthy little bundle of joy!
2006-12-07 00:46:49 · answer #7 · answered by voidtillnow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just scared after trying so hard to get pregnant for so long and NOW u finally are.but dont worry everything will work out.Best wishes
2006-12-07 00:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't think about miscarriage unless you have reason to. Are you spotting? You may want to talk to your doctor if you are this concerned.
2006-12-07 00:33:32 · answer #9 · answered by asouthwell28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋