My boyfriend is loaded(cash wise), he normally spends on me just as i wish.Nowadays, since i began working he still spends but once i get paid he wants me to spend all my earnings on him. What should i do?
2006-12-07 00:30:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are the two of you living together? Because if you two are or even if you are only dating you should want to feel that you are giving your share as well as he is.This way he won't be able to hold that over your head when the two of you get into a disagreement. But it sounds like you are expecting him to be the only one that puts forth the money! Just because he comes from money that doesn't mean that you should be selfish and not intend to give your portion as well. Women use to hate not being in control of their own money & lives because they felt that the men were to demanding. Would you much rather have him pay for everything and also allow him to control your life, or would you much rather stand-up and take on your own responsibilties, and have control of your own life?
Good Luck
I hope that you make the right decision.
2006-12-07 02:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend on him, but make sure you pay your bills first. Let him know you've got to make your budget work and what is left over can be used to spend with him. Perhaps start saving money for something special so you just don't blow it all. Good luck! Have fun! He sounds like a keeper!
2006-12-07 08:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by babbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you don't want to spend "all" your earnings on him?
You should reciprocate as much as you can. In the future, don't take so much from him because you don't want to receive what you can't pay back (money and emotional wise).
2006-12-07 08:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by pathanChe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO DUTCH! If you think its ok for him to spend so much on you than you should be willing to spend yours on him.If he has so much money thats great but why should he spend and spend without you ever spending? Thats not real fair is it? If you go dutch you both pay for your own things.Are you with him just for his money and what he will and can buy for you.If not you may have wanted to rephrase your question as,that is how you are making it sound!
2006-12-07 08:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by daklove2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The strange thing is he asked you to spend your earnings on him. If this is not the case, I may suggest you to spend your earnings on him. In a true love, you shouldn't think about such things. I suggest you to understand why he asked that.
2006-12-07 08:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by The EMA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop wanting him to spend for you now you know how he feels think that's his hard earned money that you want him to spend on you that's not right you get what you want but he dont get anything
2006-12-07 08:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put some of your earning away and spend the rest on him then you should be OK it.. good luck
2006-12-07 08:44:04 · answer #7 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reciprocate.
2006-12-07 08:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
spend money on him but most guys act like they dont want stuff but all that means is that they want it. but he is askin u then you may need to buy him stuff now and then. dont go overboard yopu never know what may come up in your future
2006-12-07 08:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him this wouldn't be a question, you'd not even think about money as an issue.
2006-12-07 08:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋