My husband and I are seperated for over a year now, we cant seem to work things out, nor can we be a part for too long. I love him, deeply! im sad and scared, but can not see how we could get through the lies, and deception that broke my heart on several occasions. What can i do to let go of this man.
2006-12-07 00:25:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel you I was going thru the exact same thing with my ex husband i kept going back and then one day i realised what am i doing? this man hurt me badly, and he isnt gonna change and we cant be fixed, you have to focus on life, and focus on finding the right man ,there is some one out there, i promise you at the moment i saida prayer to god, the man of my dreams walked thru the door literally and it was some one from 10 yrs ago in my life, you have to know you deserve better and want to do better, you keep going back cuz you are scared, and not ready for the world your ready for what you know and thats him, you cant do that, you have to hold your head up high and say you know what i am better than him, i am good enough for this world, and i am gonna show them , you wake up each morning proud, happy and ready for life.......its easier than it seems and as time goes on, it will get easier, and witha lil help from god you will do better , good luck and god bless!
2006-12-07 00:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by Melindakaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are locked and hooked by what is called a soul tie.
Those things are very difficult to break.
A soul tie is that connection (healthy or unhealthy) which you share with another individual whom, to you, seems irreplaceable in your life.
It is unhealthy if the relationship is a negative one because you draw you strength from that person's existence that's why some people are so devastated when a loved one dies.
You need to talk to someone about it.
The best person to help would be like a pastor but if you are not a believer in those principles I suggest you talk to your psychiatrist about it.
PS:
I hope this goes away quickly.
My bf had a soul tie to his ex and it was really shitty a couple of times and could have threatened our relationship had I not been able to recognise it for what it was
2006-12-07 08:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by ilyena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all get your feelings sorted, or if you like measure your feelings you have for him. Either you let him go or you go back and put up with him. For your problem I am not the one to give you advise how to control you life. My opinion is to talk to you husband and then decide.
2006-12-07 08:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by maran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one you should fall on your needs an ask God to help you with your relationship with your husband because if it is mean't to be it will be.But you have faithful about what you pray about and be careful for what you want because you don't want to put your self in a whole for what you pray for. I am not going to call you dum but sometime we make stupid choices in life we make them to learn from them. Try to pray God will help you an your storms(your time of need). He said that he would never forsake you that mean leave you he will fight your battle for you so pray.
2006-12-07 08:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by WAZUP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants his cake and wants to eat it to. Im sorry to tell you he has someone else. The problem is he keeps you hanging on just enough to keep you from finding someone else. Move on.
2006-12-07 08:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry sweetie, but being scared does not mean love. You need to move on.
2006-12-07 08:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by ransdoll90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another man to fill his place hey who knows that probably just what you need
2006-12-07 08:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to move on honey, you will find out that there are a lot of guys out there that can make your life exciting, sexy, and lots of fun.
2006-12-07 08:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by duncabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor you. who has been telling all the lies lately.
Think about it...
2006-12-07 18:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by robtiger2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away
2006-12-07 08:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋