3 days ago my BF calls and tell me that he has something very important to tell me. He tells me that his ex GF called him and told him she was pregnant by him. The last time (according to him) they had sex was in early April.
He and I started messing around/talking in March and became an item sometime in April. Ever since I can remember my BF tells me that he can't stand this girl and that their relationship was 'rocky' for the few month they were 2gether. And once I got into the picture she's been jealous and wanting him back.
The girl says that she's 7 months pregnant and is due in early Feb (she's going to doctr. on tues. to get actual date). She claims to have just found out about her pregn. because she went to the dctr. saying that her stomach was getting big and apprently he issued a preg. test. All the while she's said to still had her period.
Without any actual dates at this time, what do you think of this dilema? or chances of him impregnating her?
2006-12-07 00:22:12 · 13 answers · asked by SouthCackalacky 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Also, this girl was raped in June. he told my BF that her rapist used a condem...
Wouldn't she have gotten a rape kit performed on her that included a pregnancy test?
If she is 7 months then she would have been preg. before the attack, and even after shouldn't she have gone back to get tested?
2006-12-07 00:23:32 · update #1
I don't know the chances but i do know that i conceived in late march and there is NO WAY in hell that i could mistake the pregnancy. She may be trying to make a play to get him back by lying or she may be telling the truth. He should not have gone from one bed to the other in matter of minutes.
Well, it's really hard to be in a relationship with someone who has children from another female. I wouldn't add stress to the situation. If she is pregnant, this will be their situation to deal with, not yours. I know that sounds cruel, it really isn't meant to be, I'm just telling you the facts. But i have to tell you, i REALLY doubt that this girl is 7 months pregnant. Don't worry about it until you know for sure, and not to preach but, unless you are planning to marry this man or are married, maybe you should reconsider having relations with him. At the least, take every precaution you can.
2006-12-07 00:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by 1973kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on when she got the rape kit done, if she reported, she may or may not have had a pregnancy test done. I was raped in July, I reported it at the hosptiol after it happened and had a rape kit done, b/c it was the same day and all of the attack, there was no test done.
That aside, there is always a chance that when people have sex a pregnancy would / could occur, the best thing you all can do is wait and see if she really is pregnant. And once the aby is born have a DNA test done.
2006-12-07 08:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by his wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If seems like someone may be lying. Don't be fooled. Ur BF could be the father. U can't get ur period and be pregnant at the same time. Im 5 months pregnant and my body has gone into alot of changes. About the rape...sorry to hear.. has nothing to do with the pregnancy. As far long as she is she could of been pregnant in June and the rape kit..plus Dr's.. would of known of pregnancy. Which to me sounds like someone's lying. I would ask ur BF to get a DNA test later. Then dump him
2006-12-07 08:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by Baby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like shes full of **** to me, maybe she is just constipated. If she does end up being pregnant there is no real proff for you unless you go with her to a sono, which you shouldnt do and neither should the father if he is trying to step out on the relationship. Have him request a DNA test when the baby is born they have low cost state tests sometimes so check into your options but also be prepared to shell out 300 for it. I have seen some guys not get the testing dojne right away be slapped with child support then come back years later get the testing and the mom has to pay back because he wasnt the father.
2006-12-07 08:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first of all she sounds full of S*** but if she is telling the truth, then Yes she could have her period and be pregnant. Your boyfriend could be the father. You are just gonna have to wait to get a paternity test done to find out. Besides if there is this much drama now, wait until the baby is born; your boyfriend is probably not worth all that. Good luck!
2006-12-07 10:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she was raped at the very beginning of june then she would be almost seven months pregnant right now.
2006-12-07 09:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by Emily O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I think your bf is a liar when he told you the last time they had sex was in April
2006-12-07 08:24:36 · answer #7 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she had her period IN April before they had sex, then maybe there is a chance that he is the father, but if she had her period after they had sex, then he isn't the father.
2006-12-07 08:43:13 · answer #8 · answered by Katie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when the baby is born have a paternity test done!!!!!! good luck!
And by the way u can have ur period while ur pregnant... my friend did... it is perfectly normal!!
2006-12-07 08:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-07 08:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋