2006-12-07 00:08:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your question is not clear
2006-12-13 21:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by glover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about going out some night, just the two of you, for a meal, a movie, or whatever you two are interested in? Think of the things you both loved before and at the start of your marrige and suggest spending a little time together.
I think the most important thing here is that you guys talk. Sitting down to talk at home is very formal and awkward, that's why I'm suggesting you have a quiet night out together (I stress the quiet as clubbing won't let you talk at all).
Good luck and I hope all works out for you.
2006-12-12 10:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sentinel T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.
Don't be afraid that your life will end,
be afraid that it will never begin.
2006-12-07 03:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesnt mean their cheating its probably you just started taking each other for granted. You maybe need to start by talking, cos thats the basis of any relationship. Ask whats up, tell them your feeling neglected. All relationships go through a low point, the key is to identify it and build it up again, people think relationships just 'work' but they take effort and hard work at times. Its like when you first start seeing someone, you put the effort in and try to enjoy life....why does this stop when your in a longer relationship??? It shouldnt.....so give it a go!
2006-12-07 05:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by xray_daddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live with my parents and suspect my dad of the above, i heard suspicious phone calls and he works away alot so i looked at a website to find signs of what 2 look 4 if someone is cheat, what u list are some but it also says that they would pay more attention to try and cover their actions. Its possible but maybe they have some other problems going on they arent telling you about.
2006-12-07 00:16:36 · answer #5 · answered by truth_and_time_tells_all 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. It could simply mean that your relationship has gone stagnant. When was the last time you guys went out and done something fun with one another? Romantic? When the same old routine is played day after day, it can cause a relationship to sort of go stagnant. Try to spice it up a little and see what happens.
Chris
2006-12-07 00:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by Chris L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, is he a sulker?
You may of peed him off and he doesn't know how to talk about it, or there could be something else that is getting on top of him that he can't communicate.
My husband does this sometimes and can go on for a long time, when i try to talk he gets offensive. Last time it was cause he was scared that his Dad was going to die as he was poorly.
2006-12-07 00:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by sammyantha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily. it could be allsorts of reasons, are they depressed, is work ok, are they ill? You cant automatically assume that because they arnt the same with you that they are cheating, only you will know this, as you live with them day in day out. Look for more concrete evidence, ie, restaurant bills, different underwear, secret phone calls. They are more likely to be traits of a partner who are cheating.
good luck
2006-12-07 01:07:33 · answer #8 · answered by tizzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry. this is not txt msg! No, actually you will find people who are cheating on their partners tend to behave in a guilty manner...they tend to become more attentive, more passionate and better in bed...it is a guilt response and is well documented. By the sounds of it your partner may be under undue stress that they are hiding something else from you. Its time for you to get to talking to them and building a new bridge with them to get them to open up to you about whatever it is that they are hiding.
2006-12-07 00:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by michael s 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand what 'doesnt tip up means'. They might love you but have problems on their mind. The only way to find out is to communicate wth them. If they won't talk, then you have a problem.
2006-12-07 00:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be helpful if you spelled words out. It would make your post more readable...but as far as cheating, that may or may not be a sign. I certainly wouldn't assume someone was cheating, based only on "alienation of attention".
2006-12-07 00:11:29 · answer #11 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋