to make love to the same person all your life?
2006-12-06 23:18:07 · 37 answers · asked by Grace A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Doubt it.
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2006-12-06 23:26:22 · answer #1 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, If you find the right person. Before I met my husband, I had two other men ask me to marry them, but I knew they weren't right for me. Not for the rest of my life, anyway. I have no problem with the fact that I will never sleep with another man for the rest of my life, and there are some great benefits to that. No condoms - EVER, and no fear of STDs. Plus, when you've been with someone for awhile and you can be comfortable with them, it can be better than sex while single. When your more comfortable with a person, you can open up more sexually without worrying about being judged, and you can try new things together. (which me and my husband do whenever we can.) handcuffs, chocolate body paint, sex swing. I could never have done those things with someone I wasn't this close to. Married sex is awesome....with the right person. The right person will be someone you are close to outside the bedroom, too. If you can't get a long outside, you won't inside.
This example may seem weird, but... When was the last time while single that you acidentally let out a fart, or burped or anything like that, in bed. Or even almost did. You would be mortified. Theres nothing greater (or funnier) when you accidentally do something embarrasing in bed, and you can both laugh at it, and it doesn't spoil the mood.
But again, one last time, WITH THE RIGHT PERSON. too many people take marriage to lightly or don't work at the marriage itself.
2006-12-06 23:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by NJN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really if you are mature- Here is the thing about sex its new and exciting with different partners for about 3 to 4 months.Then are used to them .So you have to either move on to the next person or get comfortable and /excitied with someone you can trust. Love makes a huge difference in Sex. I am not saying marry the first person u
sleep with . Thats not ideal for most people.When you are a little older and more mature and u dont see the use in constantly looking for the newest partner or the next one.Trust me hunni most c**k is the same after a while. You have to develop your self and bring that into marriage.
2006-12-07 08:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by dreamweaver824 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the most lovely feeling in the world, you can totally love and trust that person and there is no need for a false front, you can be silly or serious or experimental, you can be so much more with one partner than be always on the lookout for someone else or someone 'better'. Sex takes on a deeper meaning than just body parts and can truly be a beautiful merger of self.
2006-12-06 23:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by justa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with most people so far. I have been with husband for seventeen years (married for 11) sometimes sex is a chore but mostly its good. Also I can't imagine getting naked for another man after all this time. My husband is used to my ever changing body and still wants to make love to it.
2006-12-07 02:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is terrific. Imagine being so comfortable you can have anything you want in bed. It is paramount that you keep it alive by trying new things and being spontaneous. Take good care of your body for yourself and each other. If you feel good about yourself you will stay sexy. We've been together 10 yrs and I am still sure my husband is the sexiest man alive.
2006-12-07 02:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes absolutely, and there aren't many people who understand.
I go through fazes as I do with falling in and out of love with him.
Sometimes I crave for others, but don't act on it.
You can spice it up but it doesn't last long
At the end of the day u have to sacrifice that need for all the other benefits of the marriage.
Two coping mechanisms I have are to get myself of (fantasy)
To go out get drunk flirt like hell then come home and work it out on my husband
Good luck.
2006-12-06 23:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by sammyantha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Not at all. The attraction and lust doesn't die off or anything as long as you work on all the other aspects of the relationship and understand that each person needs to feel attractive on a regular basis.
2006-12-06 23:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by Jon O 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my man for 13 years, and there is no one in the world I'd rather make love to. He's my one and only, and I'm glad. Sex is SO much better when it's with someone you love.
2006-12-07 08:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by GirlsRGamers2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a rollercoaster ride, but hey, rollercoasters are fun! =)
Married life is just the best and sex with the same person just gets better and better =)
2006-12-07 05:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by jelliebabe7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love the person it isnt that hard it is also a choice do u want this person for the rest of your life or do u want to be able to chill with who ever you want to
2006-12-06 23:38:08 · answer #11 · answered by yours truly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋