am 20 an still a virgin do u think its normall to be, am ok with it but i have pepole who keep tellin me its not right. what do u think?
2006-12-06 22:40:53 · 21 answers · asked by miss shy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you should ignore the idiots telling you it is wrong, and only go by what you think. If you were to do it with just anyone, you would most likely regret it, so it's better you're waiting. It's perfectly normal, and despite popular opinion, not everyone loses their virginity age 14! Chances are, the people telling you it's not right are either lying themselves, or regret that they're not still a virgin. Go by what you feel, it's your life, not anyone elses!
2006-12-06 22:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by sarz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mate i dont care if your 30 and are still a virgin, i would never tell you its not right, your friends no nothink if they feel they have to say that to you, haveing sex when your not ready is not good, i think its best to wait, at least you wont get a bad name, and you will feel better to wait till you feel is the right time for you, your mates have had sex, well how do you know , most of them may just say it so that they can fit into the group. but i never had sex till i was 23, all my mates had sex when they were like 16, 17, and they were also called alot of names. for get what they say, and always keep in mind that what you feel and want, is what counts, look after you, not what they say or think, cause if they were true friends , then they would understand, take care
2006-12-07 06:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by louise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! Nothing wrong with still being a virgin, I wish alot more girls would think that way and cherish their virginity and not give it away willy nilly. Your first is suppose to be special, most ppl never forget their first, so good for you in waiting for that special person.
Ignore the idiots that tell you its not right.
2006-12-07 12:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice anyone ever gave me in life was to ignore 'people'! In your 20s, you're mature enough to deal with sex and more likely to have it for the right reasons and not regret it. Having a bad experience first time can put you off for life! Just do what's right for you and I hope your first time turns out to be brilliant!
2006-12-10 20:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by noisymilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do these people get off being so self righteous and what do they know about being normal? They're lying to themselves and they are jealous of you. They envy you and they secretly wish they would have waited. How many of them have appointments at the clinic? Whatever they say though, it's really none of their business and they have no right to try and make you doubt yourself. It's not their decision so they can just butt out.
2006-12-07 07:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your choice and nobody else's. I waited because I wanted to lose my viginity to somebody I loved and in the end gave into peer pressure and lost it on a one night stand on holiday, never seeing that girl again.
I still feel bad over ten year later that I did not have more morals to stand up for myself.
There is nothing wrong with you, your friends think they what is best for you but they don't.
2006-12-07 06:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that at all.Your virginity is something very special.Cherish it and only give it to someone who truly deserves you,cherishes you and loves you completely.Hold onto it as long as you can and ignore those who ridicule you because of it.You will know when you are ready.I think it's commendable of you to hold onto it.You obviously respect yourself.That's a wonderful thing.Stay true to yourself.Good for you.
2006-12-07 06:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by CML 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are okay with it then that is fine. You should not allow the views of others to influence when you loose your virginity. You will, if and when, the time, and partner, is right for you. Other peoples views are just that....other peoples views and only you can know what is right for you.
2006-12-10 14:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's right!! I commend you for being true to yourself and not rushing into something you're not ready for just because your friends have. The right thing to do is wait until YOU are ready with someone you are ready to do this with. Until then-take pride in the fact that you are obviously very sensible-and you know your own mind!
2006-12-07 06:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your personal choice, you do what you feel is right, not what others think.
But remember, Most men want to marry a Virgin and most women want to marry experienced men.
It's not logistically possible
2006-12-07 06:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋