My girlfriend told me a couple of years back she'd been intimate with some guy who had chatted her up a couple of weeks before she was due to fly over to England to see me (she cancelled) I had a lot of faith in her and I begged her for hours to say it wasnt true. She swore on her mom's life. A few months later her mom died - over the past 3 years she's done the same thing telling me about other guys making me jealous and telling me why they're all better than me and still never shown her face once. Is she a good person?
2006-12-06 22:29:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I've posted a question about abuse. This my friend, I am sure now, is abuse. And as they advised me to tell me friend, I am also telling you. This is emotional and psychological abuse. Please do not stay and continue to take it. It will wear you down and leave you feeling like nothing when you are precious to so many, I'm sure. You sound a loyal person. Tell me, has she worn you down so far that you believe you do not deserve better? What happens when that happens? Do you give up on life? Nope. It's not okay. I wish the best, I wish you to get out of that relationship before it destroys you and others.. Be strong.
2006-12-06 22:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you have had to ask this question, its obvious that you know the answer deep down, No she is not a good person especially for you. She's obviously insecure if she's always trying to make you jealous, but you shouldn't put up with her and her insecurities, and to have put up with it for 3 years! by telling you that they are all better than you she is trying to drag you down, don't let her, leave her. Find someone else who will appreciate you for you.
2006-12-07 04:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like a right little b***h...lol. don't let her make you feel like c r a p...coz you aren't. i can't believe you are still with her. dump her noooow. if she doesn't live in the same country, you know what would be fun? don't call her ever again, and maybe she'll wonder...so if she calls, ignore her. you can put yourself back on the market, and find someone whos worth it. she doesn't sound like a good person at all.
2006-12-06 22:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, the nurse in me might have first dealt with the previous woman. besides the shown fact that, it relatively is a activity utility. i think of the employer might %. the guy who chosen to assist the captivating female. Employers are in seek of for people who're keen to "grab the day!" i'm no longer asserting it relatively is the the terrific option or ethical factor, permit me make that crystal sparkling! Very interesting question!
2016-10-14 04:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a word - no - shes just using you and obviously enjoys hurting you by messing with your emotions when she tells you stuff like being intimate with guys.
Forget about her! xx
2006-12-07 00:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her! Of course she isn't a good person, which good person plays sick games like that and cheats on you and then outs you down?
You're better off with without her
2006-12-06 22:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a real wanker. Why even post such a question? We do not know this girl so how can we judge.
2006-12-07 05:10:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you'd be best getting rid of her love =- she's messing with your head xxxx
2006-12-06 22:32:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she a good person? Hell no, dump her find some one who is faithful to you.
2006-12-06 22:33:16 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u really need to ask??!! I think that she 's trying to control u, dump her sorry @ss and find someone who will appreciate u...x
2006-12-06 22:33:12 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋